Anonymous
10/14/2018 22:08
Subject: Re:I’m not attracted to my husband
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I’m in the same boat, married almost 20 years. He’s a good man, great dad, and I love our child so much that I can’t subject him to divorce. I fake it because otherwise all is good and take a lover on the side.
Do you have a side lover?
I did until recently. I’m taking a break for now.
This is the preferred route when married sex life isn't thrilling. It is what it is.
Marriage sex life is not supposed to be thrilling.
Most of the time it is what it is.
Anonymous
10/14/2018 21:28
Subject: I’m not attracted to my husband
Divorce him now. You don’t deserve him.
Anonymous
10/14/2018 18:50
Subject: Re:I’m not attracted to my husband
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I’m in the same boat, married almost 20 years. He’s a good man, great dad, and I love our child so much that I can’t subject him to divorce. I fake it because otherwise all is good and take a lover on the side.
Do you have a side lover?
I did until recently. I’m taking a break for now.
This is the preferred route when married sex life isn't thrilling. It is what it is.
Anonymous
10/14/2018 18:38
Subject: Re:I’m not attracted to my husband
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I’m in the same boat, married almost 20 years. He’s a good man, great dad, and I love our child so much that I can’t subject him to divorce. I fake it because otherwise all is good and take a lover on the side.
Do you have a side lover?
I did until recently. I’m taking a break for now.
Anonymous
10/14/2018 18:29
Subject: Re:I’m not attracted to my husband
Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I’m in the same boat, married almost 20 years. He’s a good man, great dad, and I love our child so much that I can’t subject him to divorce. I fake it because otherwise all is good and take a lover on the side.
Do you have a side lover?
Anonymous
10/14/2018 18:10
Subject: Re:I’m not attracted to my husband
Woman here. I’m in the same boat, married almost 20 years. He’s a good man, great dad, and I love our child so much that I can’t subject him to divorce. I fake it because otherwise all is good and take a lover on the side.
Anonymous
10/14/2018 18:06
Subject: Re:I’m not attracted to my husband
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:NP. Those of you who are saying fake it til you make it are giving me hope...does that actually work?
No, you just become numb.
this. think about something else, convince yourself its for the good of your marriage and really doesn't take much time in the scheme of things. Enjoyable isn the point.
Anonymous
10/14/2018 17:58
Subject: I’m not attracted to my husband
Anonymous wrote:1) Make appointment with a dentist.
2) Join a gym and start walking together.
2.5) Realize 1 & 2 are futile.
2.6) Despair
2.7) Hope
2.8) Despair
2.9) Come to terms with 2.5
3) Fake till you're dead because it is all you can do..
Fixed it for you.
Anonymous
10/14/2018 17:39
Subject: I’m not attracted to my husband
We went through a few weeks of nothing because he suddenly repulsed me. I solved it by buying the latest issue of Cosmo which had an article of something like “10 things to spice up your sex life” and we did all 10 over the course of a month. It was definitely a fake it til you make it moment, but it worked.
Anonymous
10/14/2018 17:26
Subject: Re:I’m not attracted to my husband
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's easy to get bored having sex with the same person for many years and it's easy to come up with superficial reasons for it. Is no one initiating? Get on the internet and find a bunch of ways to spice up your sex life and there are hundreds of way to do it. A little mind blowing sex can do wonders for a relationship. We've been married over 30 years and we both still like to come back for more.
People aren't wired the way they once were. No one wants to struggle. No one wants to put in work. They want to be spoon fed their entire life. Hence why the divorce rate is where it's at, and why more and more people are single until they croak.
Divorce rate is at its lowest point in 40+ years. Get out of here with your "people these days" nonsense.
Anonymous
10/14/2018 17:21
Subject: Re:I’m not attracted to my husband
Floss 2x a day, drop 20 pounds. Earn 500k more.
Anonymous
10/14/2018 17:20
Subject: Re:I’m not attracted to my husband
No sex until you get your tartar problem under control! Anti-tartar toothpastes are so 90s.
Anonymous
10/14/2018 17:16
Subject: Re:I’m not attracted to my husband
Find a secret lover.
Anonymous
10/14/2018 17:09
Subject: Re:I’m not attracted to my husband
Anonymous wrote:NP. Those of you who are saying fake it til you make it are giving me hope...does that actually work?
There are tradeoffs: would you rather less money and no help with kids? Also it sucks to be alone. Half a loaf is better than no loaf.
Anonymous
10/14/2018 16:54
Subject: Re:I’m not attracted to my husband
Anonymous wrote:NP. Those of you who are saying fake it til you make it are giving me hope...does that actually work?
No, you just become numb.