Anonymous
10/09/2018 15:03
Subject: If you could have a guaranteed drama free open marriage / relationship would you?
How many of you "no" ladies would change your mind if it meant being with a guy who was much better endowed than your DH?
Anonymous
10/09/2018 14:49
Subject: Re:If you could have a guaranteed drama free open marriage / relationship would you?
So far our sex life is great so there is no need. If that changed, I'd be happy to but the odds of an open marriage being drama free are zero to none.
Anonymous
10/09/2018 14:43
Subject: If you could have a guaranteed drama free open marriage / relationship would you?
If there was a magic wand that would actually make this work? Absolutely. But I don’t feel like my husband and I have the emotional maturity to do this well. We’d both hurt from it.
Anonymous
10/09/2018 12:49
Subject: If you could have a guaranteed drama free open marriage / relationship would you?
nope
Anonymous
10/09/2018 12:48
Subject: If you could have a guaranteed drama free open marriage / relationship would you?
Anonymous wrote:Even though our sex life is on a definite down swing, DH is still my favorite person to hang out with. I wouldn’t be upset that he was having sex with someone else. I’d be upset that the were spending time with him.
So no on the open marriage
I don't care if someone else were spending time with my husband. Would get him out of the house.
Anonymous
10/09/2018 12:47
Subject: Re:If you could have a guaranteed drama free open marriage / relationship would you?
Anonymous wrote:No. Holds no appeal for me. It’s not that I’m never attracted to other people, but I can’t imagine how it wouldn’t affect the intimacy of our marriage for us both to be going outside it, and I value that intimacy too much to jeopardize it.
I went outside my marriage because the sex wasn't good, and we already didn't have much emotional intimacy.
Anonymous
10/09/2018 12:46
Subject: Re:If you could have a guaranteed drama free open marriage / relationship would you?
I have it, have had one outside relationship for 5+ years now, and so glad I took the plunge. Wasn't looking but this fits both of our needs.
Anonymous
10/09/2018 10:50
Subject: Re:If you could have a guaranteed drama free open marriage / relationship would you?
I have an open marriage, and it's great, but it's not drama-free. Negotiating non-monogamy in the context of a committed relationship takes maturity and a lot of work.
Anonymous
10/09/2018 10:36
Subject: If you could have a guaranteed drama free open marriage / relationship would you?
Yes! Woman here
Anonymous
10/09/2018 10:29
Subject: If you could have a guaranteed drama free open marriage / relationship would you?
If I could find time for it, my children wouldn’t suffer, I wouldn’t bring back a disease and my spouse wouldn’t be hurt I would love to.
The answer to the question is obvious, everybody loves cake but nobody wants to get fat.
The answer to the question is obvious, everybody loves cake but nobody wants to get fat.
Anonymous
10/09/2018 09:52
Subject: Re:If you could have a guaranteed drama free open marriage / relationship would you?
Initially yes. Sex is a good thing, and if my wife isn't hurt by it ... . Years later, no, never.
Anonymous
10/09/2018 08:56
Subject: If you could have a guaranteed drama free open marriage / relationship would you?
Yes (woman here)
Anonymous
10/09/2018 08:56
Subject: If you could have a guaranteed drama free open marriage / relationship would you?
Why about being able to turn invisible or fly?
Anonymous
10/09/2018 08:22
Subject: Re:If you could have a guaranteed drama free open marriage / relationship would you?
Woman here, yes oh absolutely yes. Having said that I would never as drama free doesn’t exist and my husband would say no.
Anonymous
10/09/2018 03:19
Subject: Re:If you could have a guaranteed drama free open marriage / relationship would you?
No. I never really felt good about myself after the couple of one night stands I had before I met my spouse. I don't want to do that again.