Anonymous
Post 10/15/2018 20:28     Subject: Re:Personal Loan? I'm well below DCUM average

OP, how are you guys doing? Did you ever figure out a solution?
Anonymous
Post 10/08/2018 16:55     Subject: Personal Loan? I'm well below DCUM average

Anonymous wrote:Divorce but live together...


what problem does this solution solve?
Anonymous
Post 10/08/2018 14:53     Subject: Personal Loan? I'm well below DCUM average

Can you get a home equity line of credit or cash in some of your IRAs or 401(k)? HELOCs are now about 5% interest, far better than credit cards.

I hope your wife finds the treatment she needs to get back on her feet soon.
Anonymous
Post 10/08/2018 14:20     Subject: Personal Loan? I'm well below DCUM average

Divorce but live together...
Anonymous
Post 10/08/2018 14:14     Subject: Personal Loan? I'm well below DCUM average

She's sick, OP, this isn't about "toughing it out." She needs help in the short-term, and then you need to think together about how to change things for the long-term.

If at all convenient, see if The Women's Center can help; they have locations in DC and Vienna, VA. Your family needs more than solely mental health care for your wife, and they offer comprehensive services. If not there, see what other local crisis centers have to offer.
Anonymous
Post 10/08/2018 14:10     Subject: Personal Loan? I'm well below DCUM average

401K? I so hope you can find a solution and everything works out for your family OP.
Anonymous
Post 10/08/2018 14:06     Subject: Personal Loan? I'm well below DCUM average

Best wishes to your family!