Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, you are a great example of privilege. Just because OTHER people get something for free, it does not hurt you. Yet you are still upset by it. Because you are UMC and used to the world bending in YOUR favor and not the poor kid's favor. You feel threatened and attacked even when your lot in life has not changed.
And you sound like a complete idiot. I'm not the person you are referring to but we have 3 kids entering College 2 years after each other. We don't qualify for any assistance and we certainly are not independently Wealthy by any stretch of the imagination. We've been saving since the boys were born but we will have to pay a majority of these cost out of pocket. The boys will likely take out loans if they don't qualify for any Merit Aid. Why would I pay a University where I am supplementing another child for free while we are going to be barely scraping by so that our kids aren't graduating with massive amount of debt
And you made my point perfectly. Thank you.[/quote
You're most welcome! Why not just have admission based on Merit? You think because a child was born into a family that makes less than $65,000 a year is worthy of graduating without debt but a child that happened to have been born into a family that makes $251,000 should incur debt? The issue is that everyone deserves an education without crushing debt. My kids work their ass off in school, work jobs, and are involved in all sorts of activities. Why are they less Worthy of getting free tuition? You also assume that wealthy parents are all paying for their kids to go to college. You need a reality check.
Very good points there.
This is why I prefer the Canadian and European model: quasi-free public colleges for everyone, with admissions based purely on merit.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, if we quit our jobs now, we can live off of our savings until the kids finish college, then go back to work when they are finished. Otherwise, I'm the idiot paying 80K a year when other people pay nothing.
You meant to type,
"we can live off of our savings until the kids finish college, then go back to work when they are finished. Otherwise, I'm the FORTUNATE GUY paying 80K a year when other people HAVE nothing."
...so I fixed it for you because I am nice.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, you are a great example of privilege. Just because OTHER people get something for free, it does not hurt you. Yet you are still upset by it. Because you are UMC and used to the world bending in YOUR favor and not the poor kid's favor. You feel threatened and attacked even when your lot in life has not changed.
And you sound like a complete idiot. I'm not the person you are referring to but we have 3 kids entering College 2 years after each other. We don't qualify for any assistance and we certainly are not independently Wealthy by any stretch of the imagination. We've been saving since the boys were born but we will have to pay a majority of these cost out of pocket. The boys will likely take out loans if they don't qualify for any Merit Aid. Why would I pay a University where I am supplementing another child for free while we are going to be barely scraping by so that our kids aren't graduating with massive amount of debt
Anonymous wrote:Well, if we quit our jobs now, we can live off of our savings until the kids finish college, then go back to work when they are finished. Otherwise, I'm the idiot paying 80K a year when other people pay nothing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, you are a great example of privilege. Just because OTHER people get something for free, it does not hurt you. Yet you are still upset by it. Because you are UMC and used to the world bending in YOUR favor and not the poor kid's favor. You feel threatened and attacked even when your lot in life has not changed.
And you sound like a complete idiot. I'm not the person you are referring to but we have 3 kids entering College 2 years after each other. We don't qualify for any assistance and we certainly are not independently Wealthy by any stretch of the imagination. We've been saving since the boys were born but we will have to pay a majority of these cost out of pocket. The boys will likely take out loans if they don't qualify for any Merit Aid. Why would I pay a University where I am supplementing another child for free while we are going to be barely scraping by so that our kids aren't graduating with massive amount of debt
And you made my point perfectly. Thank you.[/quote
You're most welcome! Why not just have admission based on Merit? You think because a child was born into a family that makes less than $65,000 a year is worthy of graduating without debt but a child that happened to have been born into a family that makes $251,000 should incur debt? The issue is that everyone deserves an education without crushing debt. My kids work their ass off in school, work jobs, and are involved in all sorts of activities. Why are they less Worthy of getting free tuition? You also assume that wealthy parents are all paying for their kids to go to college. You need a reality check.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, you are a great example of privilege. Just because OTHER people get something for free, it does not hurt you. Yet you are still upset by it. Because you are UMC and used to the world bending in YOUR favor and not the poor kid's favor. You feel threatened and attacked even when your lot in life has not changed.
And you sound like a complete idiot. I'm not the person you are referring to but we have 3 kids entering College 2 years after each other. We don't qualify for any assistance and we certainly are not independently Wealthy by any stretch of the imagination. We've been saving since the boys were born but we will have to pay a majority of these cost out of pocket. The boys will likely take out loans if they don't qualify for any Merit Aid. Why would I pay a University where I am supplementing another child for free while we are going to be barely scraping by so that our kids aren't graduating with massive amount of debt
And you made my point perfectly. Thank you.
Anonymous wrote:OP, if u can defer income at your company, then definitely do so to bring your income down to under $200k
Anonymous wrote:Well, if we quit our jobs now, we can live off of our savings until the kids finish college, then go back to work when they are finished. Otherwise, I'm the idiot paying 80K a year when other people pay nothing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, you are a great example of privilege. Just because OTHER people get something for free, it does not hurt you. Yet you are still upset by it. Because you are UMC and used to the world bending in YOUR favor and not the poor kid's favor. You feel threatened and attacked even when your lot in life has not changed.
And you sound like a complete idiot. I'm not the person you are referring to but we have 3 kids entering College 2 years after each other. We don't qualify for any assistance and we certainly are not independently Wealthy by any stretch of the imagination. We've been saving since the boys were born but we will have to pay a majority of these cost out of pocket. The boys will likely take out loans if they don't qualify for any Merit Aid. Why would I pay a University where I am supplementing another child for free while we are going to be barely scraping by so that our kids aren't graduating with massive amount of debt
Anonymous wrote:OP, if u can defer income at your company, then definitely do so to bring your income down to under $200k