Anonymous
09/12/2018 09:20
Subject: "No friends" - how to handle?
All. Introvert does not equal shy. Let me say that again. Introvert is not a synonym for shy.
There are plenty of kids in theatre who are introverted. Even if this isn't the program for this family, an attachment to theatre is probably a great idea/
There are plenty of kids in theatre who are introverted. Even if this isn't the program for this family, an attachment to theatre is probably a great idea/
Anonymous
09/12/2018 09:17
Subject: "No friends" - how to handle?
encourage her to join stage crew. low pressure, not that many requirements until close to the show, she'll meet a bunch of people who are inclusive.
Anonymous
09/12/2018 09:01
Subject: Re:"No friends" - how to handle?
Enroll her in sports or dance or anything outside of school that will expose your DD to new group of kids. These activities can also boost confidence and help her frame her identity beyond the current MS clique.
Anonymous
09/12/2018 08:49
Subject: Re:"No friends" - how to handle?
Anonymous wrote:I'd contact her counselor and let the counselor know your DD is struggling. It's what they're there for.
+1 Also if she likes to read, most middle schools have a book/library/TAB club which IME tends to appeal to introverted girls. My introvert DD added a new girl to her small BFF group last year after they met through the book club.
Anonymous
09/12/2018 08:47
Subject: Re:"No friends" - how to handle?
Anonymous wrote:I am not affiliated with Traveling Players Ensemble. It has been a godsend for my DD who struggles with social anxiety. Registration ends soon for this semester’s classes. I believe they offer financial aid.
OP here, I'm glad it has helped your child. I am looking for volunteer opps only and live close-in. We don't have time to drive to these classes. Thank you.
Anonymous
09/12/2018 08:44
Subject: Re:"No friends" - how to handle?
I am not affiliated with Traveling Players Ensemble. It has been a godsend for my DD who struggles with social anxiety. Registration ends soon for this semester’s classes. I believe they offer financial aid.
Anonymous
09/12/2018 08:37
Subject: Re:"No friends" - how to handle?
Anonymous wrote:Another TPE proponent here. They do amazing work with every kind of kid. Introverts, extroverts, avowed theater kids, kids who are trying it on for size. Many kids really come into their own in the supportive and small ensemble environment of TPE. Fall classes are enrolling now and this winter's plays promise to be a ton of fun. Yes, it costs money, but it is worth every penny to have your kids working with solid professionals. Also, if cost is an issue, you can apply for scholarships. TPE is committed to its scholarship program.
An introvert who is being treated for anxiety probably isn't going to want to be on stage in front of a bunch of people.
Please folks, stop with the advertising.
Anonymous
09/12/2018 08:36
Subject: Re:"No friends" - how to handle?
Anonymous wrote:Another TPE proponent here. They do amazing work with every kind of kid. Introverts, extroverts, avowed theater kids, kids who are trying it on for size. Many kids really come into their own in the supportive and small ensemble environment of TPE. Fall classes are enrolling now and this winter's plays promise to be a ton of fun. Yes, it costs money, but it is worth every penny to have your kids working with solid professionals. Also, if cost is an issue, you can apply for scholarships. TPE is committed to its scholarship program.
It is just annoying when people have problems that they need help with, and posters who are clearly advertising for the company come on here.
The PP was looking for volunteer opps, not pricey summer camps.
Anonymous
09/12/2018 04:24
Subject: "No friends" - how to handle?
Anonymous wrote:Travelling Players in NOVA is a great theatre group for this age!!!!
Not Just Dance in Chantilly is great too! They work hard to welcome new kids.
Anonymous
09/12/2018 01:16
Subject: "No friends" - how to handle?
Went thru this a few years ago. I wish I had got her in to counseling/therapy way back then. I kept thinking she would grow out of her shyness but it has progressively gotten worse.
Anonymous
09/12/2018 00:37
Subject: Re:"No friends" - how to handle?
Another TPE proponent here. They do amazing work with every kind of kid. Introverts, extroverts, avowed theater kids, kids who are trying it on for size. Many kids really come into their own in the supportive and small ensemble environment of TPE. Fall classes are enrolling now and this winter's plays promise to be a ton of fun. Yes, it costs money, but it is worth every penny to have your kids working with solid professionals. Also, if cost is an issue, you can apply for scholarships. TPE is committed to its scholarship program.
Anonymous
09/11/2018 22:47
Subject: "No friends" - how to handle?
Similar situation - wish our daughters could find each other!
Anonymous
09/11/2018 22:45
Subject: "No friends" - how to handle?
In a similar situation — wish our DD’s could find each other.
Anonymous
09/11/2018 17:35
Subject: "No friends" - how to handle?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Travelling Players in NOVA is a great theatre group for this age!!!!
It looks like it is just for acting so I can't imagine an introvert wanting to do that, also $$$$$.
I was/am still a total introvert and theater literally SAVED me in MS and HS. It is very different being able to put on a costume and "be" someone else - does not have anything to do with being outgoing or not.
Anonymous
09/11/2018 15:40
Subject: "No friends" - how to handle?
Anonymous wrote:Travelling Players in NOVA is a great theatre group for this age!!!!
It looks like it is just for acting so I can't imagine an introvert wanting to do that, also $$$$$.