Anonymous
Post 09/01/2018 22:11     Subject: What do you think of people who say...

I just think of Mean Girls-- "I'm not a regular mom, I'm a cool mom"
Anonymous
Post 09/01/2018 22:04     Subject: What do you think of people who say...

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:my son is my best friend. sorry i'm not sorry.


You talk to him about sex? Drugs? Gossip? Family secrets?


My child is not my best friend but not everyone has to have the same definition as you for what constitutes a best friend. I mean really, drugs? Not everyone is a gossip...
Anonymous
Post 09/01/2018 17:43     Subject: What do you think of people who say...

Anonymous wrote:my son is my best friend. sorry i'm not sorry.


You talk to him about sex? Drugs? Gossip? Family secrets?
Anonymous
Post 09/01/2018 17:16     Subject: What do you think of people who say...

I Feel bad for adult women who consider their mom their best friend, I mean, that’s just sad. I’m sure your mom is terrific, but you should have a same age friend who can relate as a peer. Your mom is never going to be your peer. And she needs a BFF who is her same age and life stage too!

For example. Lorelei has Sookie, Rory has Lane. But Gilmore girls is 1. Make believe and 2. A teen pregnancy and special situation. Your typical arlington mom should not be referring to her mom as her best friend.
Anonymous
Post 09/01/2018 17:02     Subject: What do you think of people who say...

Anonymous wrote:I think they just mean they like hanging out with their kid more than anyone else.

No need to think too deeply about someone’s casual statement.


My thoughts exactly! No need to complicate and analyze everything.
Anonymous
Post 09/01/2018 16:29     Subject: What do you think of people who say...

My dh deployed for 6 months when my oldest was 2.5. I spent every waking minute with her for 6 months and we coslept. I SAH and moved to another city to be near my parents for help during the short time. It was weird. We had a 1br apt. I did don’t go crazy. I loved it. It was a really special time. I don’t think I ever called her my best friend, but she was!
Anonymous
Post 09/01/2018 15:42     Subject: What do you think of people who say...

Anonymous wrote:This is why it's so exhausting to be a parent. A bunch of bitches waiting to pounce on a silly statement and make judgments about someone's parenting, values, etc.


Yep.
But I don’t get hung up semantics.
Anonymous
Post 09/01/2018 15:40     Subject: Re:What do you think of people who say...

Anonymous wrote:I think they’re immature, and/or don’t understand what a friend is. A friend is an equal and friendship is reciprocal. A child is not an equal and parenthood is the most lopsided relationship you’ll have in your life, where you should be giving without expectation of your child doing anything for you.


This. All of it.
Anonymous
Post 09/01/2018 15:04     Subject: What do you think of people who say...

This is why it's so exhausting to be a parent. A bunch of bitches waiting to pounce on a silly statement and make judgments about someone's parenting, values, etc.
Anonymous
Post 09/01/2018 14:42     Subject: What do you think of people who say...

This thread is so validating, glad I'm not the only one who judges the shit out of those people.
Anonymous
Post 09/01/2018 13:04     Subject: What do you think of people who say...

I would not say it about my toddler.

But I love in the movie I Love You, Man when the Dad says his grown son is his best friend. That’s great, I think.
Anonymous
Post 09/01/2018 12:22     Subject: Re:What do you think of people who say...

Sh*tty parent/not a parent to their child.