Anonymous wrote:I know the knee-jerk answer is “rescue!” but help me think this through:
Kids are 7 and 10, begging for a dog. I SAH but might be going back part time in a year or two. DH and I raised a puppy once early in our marriage and our dog ended up awesome. But that was 14 years ago and I didn’t have any kids then. Here are my thoughts in no real order:
Rescue is cheaper plus there are so many dogs who need homes
I’m worried about problems the rescue group leaves out or doesn’t mention (not interested in special needs dogs)
Many rescues are 6-8 years old, leaving a remaining life expectancy of 6-8 more years (we are looking at low-shed small dogs) - is that fair to the kids to not have the dog longer?
Puppies are more work but kids will get to experience “having a puppy”
We will get to have the puppy longer (this can be good and bad)
Thoughts? Be kind please!
I don't know where you get this idea. I have rescued several dogs, all 2-3 years old. They have lived long and healthy lives.
There is no way I could deal with a puppy at this point in my life. Why go there, if you can adopt a healthy 2yo that is already housebroken and civilized?