Anonymous
Post 08/09/2018 13:50     Subject: Offering me a ride?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^^ x2. That OP thinks she is so hot he must be hitting on her is the real story here.


Right, because we all know men are usually helpful to random women without other motives


I know some that are just that and nothing more. Get over yourself.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2018 12:48     Subject: Offering me a ride?
Anonymous wrote:
MikeL wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Reward his kindness with a pre work BJ

+1. Completely agree.
He gave you a ride, didn't he?


Why is it often the posters with actual DCUM accounts set up (ID etc) that post the crude replies? I've noticed 4/5 times the poster has a forum name they are saying something creepy.

Because the posters with accounts are excapees from the explicit forum (which has died since requiring an account) where suck comment were common.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2018 12:21     Subject: Offering me a ride?
Anonymous wrote:^^ x2. That OP thinks she is so hot he must be hitting on her is the real story here.


Right, because we all know men are usually helpful to random women without other motives
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2018 12:10     Subject: Re:Offering me a ride?
How have you 2 not exchanged names at this point? lol wtf
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2018 10:03     Subject: Offering me a ride?
^^ x2. That OP thinks she is so hot he must be hitting on her is the real story here.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2018 10:01     Subject: Offering me a ride?
There are nice people in the world. However, they are getting harder and harder to find because people assume their kindness is something else and they are taught the hard way that being kind to strangers doesn't pay.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2018 05:56     Subject: Re:Offering me a ride?
He could be nice and want a different kind of ride.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2018 20:10     Subject: Re:Offering me a ride?
Anonymous wrote:OP, I saw someone I know from my neighborhood walking in the morning and it was toward the metro so I stopped and offered him a ride (I'm female). I didn't know his name, I don't think he knew mine. But it was drizzly and kind of cold and I was in that kind of mood. I had no desire for anything from him - didn't even expect to see him again or honestly didn't even care to learn his name. I just knew that he lived in my neighborhood, saw him around a few times and that's it. That was about 2 years ago. Haven't offered again, rarely see him and when we cross paths we either nod or wave hello. Nothing more.


Men are different
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2018 16:58     Subject: Offering me a ride?
MikeL wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Reward his kindness with a pre work BJ

+1. Completely agree.
He gave you a ride, didn't he?


Why is it often the posters with actual DCUM accounts set up (ID etc) that post the crude replies? I've noticed 4/5 times the poster has a forum name they are saying something creepy.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2018 16:05     Subject: Offering me a ride?
Anonymous wrote:I can't believe you got in a car with a stranger.


+1. Unless you carry a gun.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2018 16:03     Subject: Re:Offering me a ride?
OP, I saw someone I know from my neighborhood walking in the morning and it was toward the metro so I stopped and offered him a ride (I'm female). I didn't know his name, I don't think he knew mine. But it was drizzly and kind of cold and I was in that kind of mood. I had no desire for anything from him - didn't even expect to see him again or honestly didn't even care to learn his name. I just knew that he lived in my neighborhood, saw him around a few times and that's it. That was about 2 years ago. Haven't offered again, rarely see him and when we cross paths we either nod or wave hello. Nothing more.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2018 15:50     Subject: Offering me a ride?
Sounds like a decent soul and a kind of heart-warming interaction in general.

I wouldn't read into it OP, unless your internal alarms are ringing.

Maybe introduce yourself and ask him his name though! That's the weirdest thing about this to me.
MikeL
Post 08/08/2018 15:28     Subject: Offering me a ride?
Anonymous wrote:Reward his kindness with a pre work BJ

+1. Completely agree.
He gave you a ride, didn't he?
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2018 15:05     Subject: Offering me a ride?
IMHO the people that ride the train are generally nicer to each other than people that ride the metro. I suppose it might be because when you all take the same train at the same stop people's faces become familiar vs. the metro where the trains run continuously so you may not be waiting with the same people every day.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2018 12:12     Subject: Re:Offering me a ride?
Anonymous wrote:I'd say...

30% chance he's just being nice
70% chance he finds you attractive and is hoping it develops into something more


This. Probably thinks you’re cute and wants to see what might happen.