Anonymous
Post 08/04/2018 08:49     Subject: This forum makes me glad I'm single
Anonymous wrote:Being single is great!!

It doesn’t have to be a temporary phase in your life until you meet your next partner.
It can be a permanent lifestyle choice and that is normal and okay.

Many people enjoy being single and shouldn’t feel guilty about how they feel.

Relationships are nice if they are solid.
But they require maintenance, upkeep & work and for some people...they just want to enjoy their lives and take everything easy.

To each his (or her!) own.
Id rather be single the rest of my life, then settle
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2018 08:23     Subject: This forum makes me glad I'm single
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Being single is great!!

It doesn’t have to be a temporary phase in your life until you meet your next partner.
It can be a permanent lifestyle choice and that is normal and okay.

Many people enjoy being single and shouldn’t feel guilty about how they feel.

Relationships are nice if they are solid.
But they require maintenance, upkeep & work and for some people...they just want to enjoy their lives and take everything easy.

To each his (or her!) own.


Yet you’re writing this on a relationship forum.


Anonymous
Post 08/04/2018 08:20     Subject: This forum makes me glad I'm single
There are pros and cons to being happily single or happily married. Both exist! This isn’t a competition. Of course this is a place for the problems so that’s what you see here.

Reading DCUM is like listening to my 8-year-old son and his friends engage in constant one-ups and pissing contests. I think, “oh it’s just boys and they’ll grow out of it.” But the truth is that many of us won’t.
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2018 07:49     Subject: This forum makes me glad I'm single
I'm glad I married a decent woman and not one of the cheating, lying women on this site
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2018 05:53     Subject: This forum makes me glad I'm single
Anonymous wrote:Being single is great!!

It doesn’t have to be a temporary phase in your life until you meet your next partner.
It can be a permanent lifestyle choice and that is normal and okay.

Many people enjoy being single and shouldn’t feel guilty about how they feel.

Relationships are nice if they are solid.
But they require maintenance, upkeep & work and for some people...they just want to enjoy their lives and take everything easy.

To each his (or her!) own.


Yet you’re writing this on a relationship forum.
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2018 02:22     Subject: This forum makes me glad I'm single
Being single is great!!

It doesn’t have to be a temporary phase in your life until you meet your next partner.
It can be a permanent lifestyle choice and that is normal and okay.

Many people enjoy being single and shouldn’t feel guilty about how they feel.

Relationships are nice if they are solid.
But they require maintenance, upkeep & work and for some people...they just want to enjoy their lives and take everything easy.

To each his (or her!) own.
Anonymous
Post 08/03/2018 14:42     Subject: This forum makes me glad I'm single
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Us happy, normal couples don't post on here. We just occasionally pop over here from Recent Topics to see the circus.


+1 But I do like reading about how much everyone seems to hate their spouses/sibling/kids/MILs. Makes me grateful for my life.


I bet the people that post all the bs here are also posting it on their Facebook
Anonymous
Post 08/03/2018 14:41     Subject: This forum makes me glad I'm single
Anonymous wrote:OP, I am single too and I feel the same way. It's really no different in real life though. I listen to some of the things that my married and divorced friends do and say and I am happy that I have chosen to live a peaceful life. If I find someone to partner with, cool.
Happiness comes from within, not from someone else anyway. The amount of people that get into relationships just to be in one is insane.
Anonymous
Post 08/03/2018 14:40     Subject: This forum makes me glad I'm single
Anonymous wrote:It’s easy be be virtuous and judgemental until you’ve lived someone else’s life.

But hey.. you do you.


Is that you Hillary?
Anonymous
Post 08/03/2018 14:39     Subject: This forum makes me glad I'm single
Anonymous wrote:Us happy, normal couples don't post on here. We just occasionally pop over here from Recent Topics to see the circus.


As most sane people, but the amount of POS people, men & women, out there is enough to make anyone A sexual
Anonymous
Post 08/03/2018 12:56     Subject: This forum makes me glad I'm single
I would say both men and women can be crazy.
Anonymous
Post 08/03/2018 12:46     Subject: This forum makes me glad I'm single
Anonymous wrote:Us happy, normal couples don't post on here. We just occasionally pop over here from Recent Topics to see the circus.


Actually, I also come here to cheer myself up. A little while reading the relationship forum reinforces for me what a wonderful wife I have and how lucky I am to have her.
Anonymous
Post 08/03/2018 12:30     Subject: This forum makes me glad I'm single
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some of the things women have posted about doing on here. Unreal. No wonder men don't trust you.


Like men are so much better?


Gay man here. Yes, they are better. DCUM makes me thankful men are who I have to deal with.

I would say lesbians are better, and I'm a hetero female.
Anonymous
Post 08/03/2018 12:28     Subject: This forum makes me glad I'm single
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some of the things women have posted about doing on here. Unreal. No wonder men don't trust you.


Like men are so much better?


Gay man here. Yes, they are better. DCUM makes me thankful men are who I have to deal with.
Anonymous
Post 08/03/2018 12:25     Subject: This forum makes me glad I'm single
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Us happy, normal couples don't post on here. We just occasionally pop over here from Recent Topics to see the circus.

+1 I've never posted our marital problems on here. Only provided feedback. Compared to most on here, we don't have that many issues.

This forum makes me glad I found my DH. He's not perfect (I know.. neither am I), but he's pretty awesome compared to some of the men on here.


Same. I've been happily married for almost 30 years. People would be bored to death if I posted about our marriage. No drama. No fighting. Just two people living very happy, but very ordinary lives.


This has been us for many years, but we're amazed at all the people that are now divorced. Or going through self inflicted drama caused by one or the other. Some of them won't have the best retirement because of mid life stupidity.