Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you saving for college?
Yes. I think about $300/mo ($100 per month per child).
NP here. That's not nearly enough, especially considering that you have a HHI of $300k. If that's all you're saving, then the right answer for your vacation budget is $0.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Most of you are sounding like my husband, with these figures, lol.
This post is brought to you by our latest disagreement whereby we are going to visit his family in Miami, and of course we have to go during school breaks which are more expensive. It costs $400/ticket to fly to Miami when we are looking but $177/ticket fly to Jacksonville and drive 5 additional hours each way. Guess which one he wants to do? His revised idea, then, is to rent an RV and drive both ways - but also, I can only take a week off work. And apparently, I think time is money![]()
We could theoretically go a different time of year but it’s also a milestone birthday for his mother.
We actually haven’t done a ton of travel this year because I was “saving” for an international trip next year that is now unlikely to occur (for non-monetary reasons). I put “saving” in quotes here because I didn’t actually put any money aside except in my own mind. That is where I think a budget would help. But it appears there is a wide range of what travel budget would be acceptable.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Traveling is a very wise investment opposed to typical American vacations to idiotic places like Disneyland. When you travel with your children they naturally become worldly just by waking up in the morning in a different country and that before you even visit Versailles that afternoon.
Amusement parks just on the surface have the potential to be dangerous. Furthermore the G-Forces on a child's brain can't be good.
If Europe is too expensive then take road trips across the United States. Turn every vacation into a learning experience and make them memorable.
lol ooooookay.
We spent $3k one year on a big ski trip, $700 a year for another 3 years straight (a couple weekend trips) then, gasp, $7k this year on Disney, because it’s something you take your lumps and do when you have kids. HHI of $700k.
Travel is never an “investment.” On the other hand, why have a high income if you can’t enjoy things sometimes. But it’s a self-indulgent luxury whether to Disney or Berlin.
. But it appears there is a wide range of what travel budget would be acceptable. Anonymous wrote:Traveling is a very wise investment opposed to typical American vacations to idiotic places like Disneyland. When you travel with your children they naturally become worldly just by waking up in the morning in a different country and that before you even visit Versailles that afternoon.
Amusement parks just on the surface have the potential to be dangerous. Furthermore the G-Forces on a child's brain can't be good.
If Europe is too expensive then take road trips across the United States. Turn every vacation into a learning experience and make them memorable.
Anonymous wrote:We make 375k and spend around 12k on vacations.
Anonymous wrote:HHI of $165 with a travel budget of $10-15k.
I guess that means you could afford $20-30k? Enjoy!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you saving for college?
Yes. I think about $300/mo ($100 per month per child).
NP here. That's not nearly enough, especially considering that you have a HHI of $300k. If that's all you're saving, then the right answer for your vacation budget is $0.
Who says she needs or wants to fully fund college? Sure, her amount may not be enough but that doesn’t mean she gets a $0 travel budget. One is optional (college). Most don’t consider vacations optional. Even “staycations” usually require output of $.
Wait are you honestly arguing that college is optional but "travel" is not? Weird... I like travel a lot, and I also fully intend to pay for my kids' college. But if I had to eliminate one of them, it wouldn't be the college. But you do you, different strokes and all that.