Anonymous
Post 07/17/2018 19:45     Subject: Resources for open marriages?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Open marriage usually refers to dating others separately.

Do you want to date together, aka swing? Or are you each going your own way?


OP here - thanks for this question because I agree there's a big difference here. We're going our own way, not dating together. So a lot of those sites aren't going to work for us. I guess the more traditional sites would be better. I just wasn't sure if anybody on those sites would be looking for this sort of situation.


There are tons of other married people to have affairs with.


Great, but how do I find them? That's what I'm asking.


Tinder, ok Cupid, etc. Use word like discrete, casual relationship, non-judgmental in your profile. Those are buzz words that will attract replies the type of folks you are looking for but not all will be married. If you want someone that is married, you may need to get more specific or just ask when they contact you.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2018 18:02     Subject: Resources for open marriages?

Anonymous wrote:Order a pina colada. If they immediately start singing, there’s your cue.


That and they’ll be pushing 70 if they can still refer to that song.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2018 17:23     Subject: Resources for open marriages?

In addition to more than two, the ethical slur was also a good read.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2018 17:22     Subject: Resources for open marriages?

Polyamory meetups
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2018 17:17     Subject: Re:Resources for open marriages?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Please give it a rest.

While I don't buy your story...talk to some people in the health field. Herpes and the many diseases should be a wake up call.

Oh please. It's no riskier than being a single dater.


LOL

Being promiscuous is risky!!
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2018 15:57     Subject: Resources for open marriages?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Open marriage usually refers to dating others separately.

Do you want to date together, aka swing? Or are you each going your own way?


OP here - thanks for this question because I agree there's a big difference here. We're going our own way, not dating together. So a lot of those sites aren't going to work for us. I guess the more traditional sites would be better. I just wasn't sure if anybody on those sites would be looking for this sort of situation.


There are tons of other married people to have affairs with.


Great, but how do I find them? That's what I'm asking.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2018 15:42     Subject: Resources for open marriages?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Open marriage usually refers to dating others separately.

Do you want to date together, aka swing? Or are you each going your own way?


OP here - thanks for this question because I agree there's a big difference here. We're going our own way, not dating together. So a lot of those sites aren't going to work for us. I guess the more traditional sites would be better. I just wasn't sure if anybody on those sites would be looking for this sort of situation.


There's significant overlap between those groups. You'll find as many open people wanting to date separately on the swingers sites as on the regular dating sites, in terms of numbers. I used to be on both types of apps and met plenty of couples on the swinger sites that didn't limit themselves to dating as a couple, though a lot of them do.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2018 15:14     Subject: Resources for open marriages?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Open marriage usually refers to dating others separately.

Do you want to date together, aka swing? Or are you each going your own way?


OP here - thanks for this question because I agree there's a big difference here. We're going our own way, not dating together. So a lot of those sites aren't going to work for us. I guess the more traditional sites would be better. I just wasn't sure if anybody on those sites would be looking for this sort of situation.


There are tons of other married people to have affairs with.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2018 15:01     Subject: Resources for open marriages?

There’s a lot of articles out about the new drug-resistant STDs. It’s not the type of clap that your freshman year roommate had. This shit means business.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2018 14:58     Subject: Resources for open marriages?

#slingers
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2018 14:35     Subject: Resources for open marriages?

Anonymous wrote:Open marriage usually refers to dating others separately.

Do you want to date together, aka swing? Or are you each going your own way?


OP here - thanks for this question because I agree there's a big difference here. We're going our own way, not dating together. So a lot of those sites aren't going to work for us. I guess the more traditional sites would be better. I just wasn't sure if anybody on those sites would be looking for this sort of situation.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2018 08:36     Subject: Resources for open marriages?

Open marriage usually refers to dating others separately.

Do you want to date together, aka swing? Or are you each going your own way?
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2018 08:12     Subject: Re:Resources for open marriages?

Anonymous
Post 07/16/2018 21:45     Subject: Resources for open marriages?

Scarlet Ranch in Denver.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2018 21:35     Subject: Re:Resources for open marriages?

The Crucible. It was rocking on Saturday night.