Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH doesn’t really know the extent of my experimentation from my college days. I had several, ongoing casual relationships with women and I miss it. There’s no way to incorporate it into my life now unless DH is a part of it - which I don’t want. And yes, I know I can’t have it both ways.

I just know I’m left feeling like something is missing. It sucks. I miss women.

I will not be liked by the judgmental people on the website... But I think that you should find other Married females in the same situation that you share a mutual attraction with and itch the itch that needs to be itched... ?

I'm middle aged and happily married, and DH has given me a hall pass to connect with women, but I've never done it. I love the idea but have no idea how to find someone to have a bit of fun with who will be safe, respectful, and won't want anything more.

Anonymous wrote:I am bi and I am married to a woman. And yes, I am satisfied with my marriage and I do not want to incorporate casual relationships with men into my life. I had my share of dating both sexes and I settled for the person that I am committed to. It happens to be a woman, but it could have been a man.

I think *settled* is the most telling word in that statement.

I am bi and I am married to a woman. And yes, I am satisfied with my marriage and I do not want to incorporate casual relationships with men into my life. I had my share of dating both sexes and I settled for the person that I am committed to. It happens to be a woman, but it could have been a man.

DW claimed she was bi when we married. She has an unlimited hall pass with women whom she never seeks out to my knowledge.

Who are these men who protest their wives fooling around with other women? Fools!

Everyone who wants to cheat on a partner (or wants to be a cuckold) can find reasons why the person they are committed to does not meet their needs (or should be allowed to cheat.) A same-sex relationship can bring all of the love and emotional involvement an opposite sex relationship can. You may enjoy having your wife bang others. Many men do.

However, many men and women uphold their end of a committed relationship. Calling someone a fool because they do not follow your lifestyle (cuckoldry) does not make you right.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Then tell DH you want to open up the relationship and he can pursue other women on his own. But you’re not going to involve him with your women.

Fair is fair.

Np here.

Him pursuing other women is not fair or equal. Him being able to pursue other men would be the equal here.

+1 signed, bisexual man

everyone is at least a little bisexual

DW claimed she was bi when we married. She has an unlimited hall pass with women whom she never seeks out to my knowledge.

Who are these men who protest their wives fooling around with other women? Fools!

Anonymous wrote:DH doesn’t really know the extent of my experimentation from my college days. I had several, ongoing casual relationships with women and I miss it. There’s no way to incorporate it into my life now unless DH is a part of it - which I don’t want. And yes, I know I can’t have it both ways.

I just know I’m left feeling like something is missing. It sucks. I miss women.

I will not be liked by the judgmental people on the website... But I think that you should find other Married females in the same situation that you share a mutual attraction with and itch the itch that needs to be itched... ?

I am!! He's amazing!

Now do I fantasize..sure! Everyone does and that's normal. But I'm in love and happy despite having a hall pass from him.