Anonymous
Post 07/04/2018 16:14     Subject: Re:How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?
Never, and I've never done it to him.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2018 16:13     Subject: How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?
Never. Maybe she's said WTF about something I did. This may've happened at some point. But curse at me? No.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2018 16:10     Subject: How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?
I cuss like a sailor sometimes and so does my husband outside of work. We NEVER have cussed at each other or called each other names.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2018 16:09     Subject: How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?
Never. Ever. Nor do I do it to him.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2018 16:09     Subject: Re:How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?
He literally never has.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2018 16:07     Subject: How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?
He does curse a lot when we argue, but he doesn't call me names. I don't think name calling and cursing is an instant reason for divorce but I can certainly see it chipping away at the trust and respect over time.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2018 16:00     Subject: How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?
Never ever.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2018 16:00     Subject: How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?
Anonymous wrote:Frequently, which is why we are separated and divorcing.

I didn't want my daughter to think it was okay to be treated like that, and I didn't want my son to think it was okay to treat a woman like that. So I left.

I suggest you do the same.


Same here.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2018 15:57     Subject: How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?
Never. Together 30 yrs.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2018 15:57     Subject: How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?
Once in 8 years.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2018 15:53     Subject: Re:How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?
Anonymous wrote:Not one time in 27 years.



+1 never in 26 years.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2018 15:51     Subject: How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?
Frequently, which is why we are separated and divorcing.

I didn't want my daughter to think it was okay to be treated like that, and I didn't want my son to think it was okay to treat a woman like that. So I left.

I suggest you do the same.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2018 15:49     Subject: How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?
Anonymous wrote:I can see this happening if there is a lot of built of resentment. Are you on medication but are not taking it regularly? Are you withholding sex? Do you expect your spouse to be a solo parent? Because you can't know what's happening inside your spouse, look within


Ah, the old “what did you do” response.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2018 15:43     Subject: How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?
I can see this happening if there is a lot of built of resentment. Are you on medication but are not taking it regularly? Are you withholding sex? Do you expect your spouse to be a solo parent? Because you can't know what's happening inside your spouse, look within
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2018 15:36     Subject: How often does your spouse curse at you and call you names?
Anonymous wrote:Another never here. Together 18 years, married for 13. I’ve never done that to him, either.


Same time frame and never.