Anonymous
Post 07/15/2018 10:18     Subject: Do men and women get more of a craving for sex after 50?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Im 57...dh is retired , i am not. He bugs me once a week..i am not interested..menopause killed my libido..i pray he looses his libido ..


I don’t understand this. Other than sex, everything else we do to show love to our partner is not hormonally driven, yet we do those things anyway, whether it be out of a sense of responsibility, a desire to make our partner happy, or a willingness to meet his/her needs. I understand the impact menopause can have on desire, but I also assume you’re seldom if ever horny to make your husband breakfast but you still do it, right? What if yiur DH said his hormones have changed and he can no longer listen to you talk about your day? Bottom line, how difficult is it to take 5-10 minutes and give him a BJ or HJ, or assuming sex isn’t painful, to have intercourse?


HJ, BJ, intercourse? How about romancing your wife and foreplay so she gets in the mood for sex?!? A good first step would be to stop whining and demanding sex which is NOT sexy. A HJ, BJ, etc all focuses on the guy and his pleasure. Maybe if you wren’t so selfish and self absorbed, your DW will want to have sex with you.
Anonymous
Post 07/14/2018 20:05     Subject: Re:Do men and women get more of a craving for sex after 50?
taketothebank wrote:
So gross when men respond like this.


Must you do not get the joke or lack a sense of humor. Most likely due to a lack on human companionship (or too much feline companionship.)



She desperately needs https://www.omgyes.com
taketothebank
Post 07/14/2018 12:08     Subject: Re:Do men and women get more of a craving for sex after 50?
So gross when men respond like this.


You must not get the joke or lack a sense of humor. Most likely due to a lack of human companionship (or too much feline companionship.)

Anonymous
Post 07/14/2018 09:43     Subject: Do men and women get more of a craving for sex after 50?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Im 57...dh is retired , i am not. He bugs me once a week..i am not interested..menopause killed my libido..i pray he looses his libido ..


I don’t understand this. Other than sex, everything else we do to show love to our partner is not hormonally driven, yet we do those things anyway, whether it be out of a sense of responsibility, a desire to make our partner happy, or a willingness to meet his/her needs. I understand the impact menopause can have on desire, but I also assume you’re seldom if ever horny to make your husband breakfast but you still do it, right? What if yiur DH said his hormones have changed and he can no longer listen to you talk about your day? Bottom line, how difficult is it to take 5-10 minutes and give him a BJ or HJ, or assuming sex isn’t painful, to have intercourse?

Exactly. Or if you can’t follow this reasonable advice, then at least admit the marriage is Open so he won’t feel obliged to keep pretending otherwise.
Anonymous
Post 07/14/2018 08:50     Subject: Do men and women get more of a craving for sex after 50?
Anonymous wrote:Im 57...dh is retired , i am not. He bugs me once a week..i am not interested..menopause killed my libido..i pray he looses his libido ..


I don’t understand this. Other than sex, everything else we do to show love to our partner is not hormonally driven, yet we do those things anyway, whether it be out of a sense of responsibility, a desire to make our partner happy, or a willingness to meet his/her needs. I understand the impact menopause can have on desire, but I also assume you’re seldom if ever horny to make your husband breakfast but you still do it, right? What if yiur DH said his hormones have changed and he can no longer listen to you talk about your day? Bottom line, how difficult is it to take 5-10 minutes and give him a BJ or HJ, or assuming sex isn’t painful, to have intercourse?
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2018 23:59     Subject: Re:Do men and women get more of a craving for sex after 50?
Anonymous wrote:I'm 66 and I still enjoy it! Last night after missing it for 10 days we had a great foreplay session followed by DH putting my legs over his shoulders which is pretty darn good for someone my age.


Another yoga devotee!!
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2018 09:11     Subject: Re:Do men and women get more of a craving for sex after 50?
taketothebank wrote:
crave it and want it everyday! so damn distracting ~ woman ~ nothing fake or lifted, no artificial preservatives, good body, tight booty and helmet to match



We have a winning answer to the OP's question. To this poster, I love you and do not even know you.


So gross when men respond like this.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2018 08:32     Subject: Re:Do men and women get more of a craving for sex after 50?
My DH and DI have no sex. His job is intense plus he’s on blood thinner., Cholesterol Medicine, vsltrex, I think those meds and stress are a killer in the sex department.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2018 08:14     Subject: Re:Do men and women get more of a craving for sex after 50?
I'm 66 and I still enjoy it! Last night after missing it for 10 days we had a great foreplay session followed by DH putting my legs over his shoulders which is pretty darn good for someone my age.
Anonymous
Post 07/12/2018 22:56     Subject: Do men and women get more of a craving for sex after 50?
Im 57...dh is retired , i am not. He bugs me once a week..i am not interested..menopause killed my libido..i pray he looses his libido ..
Anonymous
Post 07/08/2018 23:30     Subject: Re:Do men and women get more of a craving for sex after 50?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am the same age as OP. My perimenopausal libido has not died/slowed down. Both DH and I have a better sex life than in our 30s. I wonder if this is a case of use it or lose it.


But are you guys still Creative?


As in 'fertile' creative, or 'vibrators, Viagra, new positions, bondage and anal beads' creative? As we have aged we are more comfortable with our not perfect bodies. I never had this kind of confidence when I was younger. We are also aware that we have finite number of years left for this kind of sexual intimacy with each other. There is an immense gratefulness and glee that we are able to have sex and get this comfort from each other. We are more adventurous and less self-conscious when we bring in toys or try new things in our bed.
Anonymous
Post 07/08/2018 23:03     Subject: Do men and women get more of a craving for sex after 50?
DW here-53 years young; married 26 years. Ever since my partial hysterectomy, two years ago, my sexual appetite has grown. I wish that I could have it at least 4X a week, but DH can't keep up. I also want to go a bit darker, thankfully, he's responding (slowly). lol
Anonymous
Post 07/08/2018 20:45     Subject: Re:Do men and women get more of a craving for sex after 50?
Anonymous wrote:I am the same age as OP. My perimenopausal libido has not died/slowed down. Both DH and I have a better sex life than in our 30s. I wonder if this is a case of use it or lose it.


But are you guys still Creative?
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2018 18:35     Subject: Re:Do men and women get more of a craving for sex after 50?
Anonymous wrote:I am the same age as OP. My perimenopausal libido has not died/slowed down. Both DH and I have a better sex life than in our 30s. I wonder if this is a case of use it or lose it.


We're in our 60's and we haven't slowed down because if we did we might feel we were in our 60's! Not that 1-2 times a week is a lot but my bet is we are above average. My DH doesn't have any health or ED issues which certainly helps.
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2018 16:40     Subject: Re:Do men and women get more of a craving for sex after 50?
I am the same age as OP. My perimenopausal libido has not died/slowed down. Both DH and I have a better sex life than in our 30s. I wonder if this is a case of use it or lose it.