I think my SO is very hot, but I think his kind heart and humility add to his attractiveness.

He’s actually is the most attractive. Most of my ex’s were usually overweight and not attractive at all.

No, she's not the hottest or the most attractive but she is so off the charts the best I could have ever hoped for that I don't care. We've been married a very long time and I'm blessed.

He wasn't the hottest looking but he was darn good looking. But he had overcome a physical disability to such an extent that I was really turned on by his amazing inner strength and his looks. He was a friend for a couple of years before we ever dated and it finally dawned on me that he was really hot. 30+ years later he's been incredibly successful and he's been a wonderful dad and very hot husband. So, as a total package - yes he's the hottest.

He’s not the hottest or the best in bed but I married him for his other great qualities. Those other men were fun but not good for marriage.

No, DW isnt hottest but she is attractive. She is also good but not the best in bed and man do I miss a couple of my wild exes

I had a baby with a male model so DH is not the most physically good looking, but he’s the hottest and most attractive because of his personality.

She's up there. She's by far the best in bed.

No, but dh is definitely in the top 5.

DW is the hottest yes. Also the sex is really good, when she opens up a bit it is great. We have been married now for 18 years so I can't remember if sex with women before was better or not

Dated? Yes. Sex? No.

Not by a long shot but still found him attractive (and still do after 20+ years) and sex with him is the best I've ever had! I'll take 'less' attractive and more compatible any day.

Nope. But he’s the only one who could make me cry when I thought of him leaving.

No. But he was the best man I ever dated! He is smart, true, and honest and an awesome father and husband. That in itself makes him super hot to me. I have dated physically good looking men who lost their hotness in my eyes due to selfishness or some other factor. When I get to know someone, I see the inside of a person rather than the outside. It’s not only with men, it’s with women as well. I have known beautiful women who I stopped seeing as beautiful once I got to know them, and I have seen average looking men and women who I think are absolutely beautiful as I have gotten to know them.

Husband's in the top 2! But when I was in my mid 20s, I briefly dated this much older (40 year old) guy I met at the gym. He was absolutely gorgeous in every way physically - amazing body, great face. But we didn't have a thing in common and he had some ED issues. Things just naturally faded out after a few months, and I met my husband shortly after and never looked back.