Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you romantically interested in her?
If so, don’t pretend to have tastes or habits that you really abhor.
Post divorce, I wasted months dating a guy who ultimately told me he didn’t believe in God (I’m religious), hated sci-fi (I’m a huge nerd), and couldn’t see how I reconciled the two. Why spend months attending Mass with me, then binge-watching BSG? And, don’t say just for sex. There’s plenty of sex available with people who don’t love things that you hate!
He did those things to make you happy and you dumped him? I’m trying to figure out which one is more above and beyond the call: Palm Sunday mass or Battlestar season 3.
Anonymous wrote:At least OP is dissembling he’s interested in her brain rather than dissembling he’s interested in her kids. Still, just another trap for single moms. There are so many available women, why on earth do some losers play with the emotions of someone who has children.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People love to talk about themselves. Tell her you're in a reading rut and ask her to recommend something. And ask her why she likes it.
fTW!!!!! So true.
Anonymous wrote:People love to talk about themselves. Tell her you're in a reading rut and ask her to recommend something. And ask her why she likes it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you romantically interested in her?
If so, don’t pretend to have tastes or habits that you really abhor.
Post divorce, I wasted months dating a guy who ultimately told me he didn’t believe in God (I’m religious), hated sci-fi (I’m a huge nerd), and couldn’t see how I reconciled the two. Why spend months attending Mass with me, then binge-watching BSG? And, don’t say just for sex. There’s plenty of sex available with people who don’t love things that you hate!
Yes but she's not ready to be in a relationship yet so we're in friends zone right now but I like her company and want to our conversation to stay ineresting.
Find something you both genuinely like. If you can’t, don’t fake affinity.
Also, you will likely never move out of friend zone.
If she were into you, she wouldn't have told you she wasn't ready for a relationship. That's a classic line.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you romantically interested in her?
If so, don’t pretend to have tastes or habits that you really abhor.
Post divorce, I wasted months dating a guy who ultimately told me he didn’t believe in God (I’m religious), hated sci-fi (I’m a huge nerd), and couldn’t see how I reconciled the two. Why spend months attending Mass with me, then binge-watching BSG? And, don’t say just for sex. There’s plenty of sex available with people who don’t love things that you hate!
Yes but she's not ready to be in a relationship yet so we're in friends zone right now but I like her company and want to our conversation to stay ineresting.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you romantically interested in her?
If so, don’t pretend to have tastes or habits that you really abhor.
Post divorce, I wasted months dating a guy who ultimately told me he didn’t believe in God (I’m religious), hated sci-fi (I’m a huge nerd), and couldn’t see how I reconciled the two. Why spend months attending Mass with me, then binge-watching BSG? And, don’t say just for sex. There’s plenty of sex available with people who don’t love things that you hate!
Yes but she's not ready to be in a relationship yet so we're in friends zone right now but I like her company and want to our conversation to stay ineresting.
Find something you both genuinely like. If you can’t, don’t fake affinity.
Also, you will likely never move out of friend zone.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you romantically interested in her?
If so, don’t pretend to have tastes or habits that you really abhor.
Post divorce, I wasted months dating a guy who ultimately told me he didn’t believe in God (I’m religious), hated sci-fi (I’m a huge nerd), and couldn’t see how I reconciled the two. Why spend months attending Mass with me, then binge-watching BSG? And, don’t say just for sex. There’s plenty of sex available with people who don’t love things that you hate!
Yes but she's not ready to be in a relationship yet so we're in friends zone right now but I like her company and want to our conversation to stay ineresting.