Anonymous wrote:Something is off. Maybe a 1% chance that it's an amazing love story. Usually when things don't make sense or are completely contrary to human nature then there is a not so uplifting reason. He may be gay and she may be desperate. He may have a fetish. She may have access to money and he's lazy.

Or maybe just maybe he loves her and the demographics were in her favor. There are places where men outnumber women 10-to-1. Alaska. Prince Edward's Island.

I mean I wouldn't move to NYC and expect anyone but Bella Hadid to snag a C-suite level hunk with looks AND money, but there are definitely places where a good-looking woman who is kind can snag a great-looking man. ESPECIALLY when everyone else around them is sporting that heroin-chic look because guess what - addict central.

Something is off. Maybe a 1% chance that it's an amazing love story. Usually when things don't make sense or are completely contrary to human nature then there is a not so uplifting reason. He may be gay and she may be desperate. He may have a fetish. She may have access to money and he's lazy.

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Anonymous wrote:Are you attracted to women? No? Then maybe you don't know what makes a woman attractive. Also....maybe people have different tastes? Or don't care so much about looks?

I've said this before...remember that Alex is "the hot one" on OITNB...not Piper. White women usually think that men want the thinnest and the blondest chick and that's not always the case.

Control your green-eyed monster, OP.

And then get confused why the new model of them is not only bustier, hotter, and more adventurous than they were but also somehow manages to be KIND.

Yeah most of my male friends would rather be with a fun chick who eats ribs and drinks beer than a grumpy, skinny woman.

I do think there’s a correlation with being slightly out of shape and also being “good giving and game” especially in the oral sex area. That is like catnip.

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Anonymous wrote:Hmm, light, adventurous, good personality.

Some of my tall and stunning model-looking friends are the WORST dates. Always criticizing. Amazing to think someone would want something different.

Besides have you seen Hugh Jackman's wife? Get ready you're going to keel over in jealousy. They've been married for 20+ years.

She was young and pretty when they met. She is years older than him though.

https://www.sheknows.com/entertainment/slideshow/6689/things-to-know-about-hugh-jackmans-wife/6

It's well known he is gay and they're BFFs.

Anonymous wrote:perhaps he is not vapid and shallow?

Seriously op. You are a terrible person. Looks face but your nasty judgemental personality will last

Anonymous wrote:Are you attracted to women? No? Then maybe you don't know what makes a woman attractive. Also....maybe people have different tastes? Or don't care so much about looks?

I've said this before...remember that Alex is "the hot one" on OITNB...not Piper. White women usually think that men want the thinnest and the blondest chick and that's not always the case.

Control your green-eyed monster, OP.

And then get confused why the new model of them is not only bustier, hotter, and more adventurous than they were but also somehow manages to be KIND.

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Anonymous wrote:Look at Pierce Brosnan and his wife. Not all men want stick insects.

She wasn’t fat until after they married. Bad example.

She was stunningly gorgeous and skinny when they first dated. I give him credit for not being shallow and sticking with her though.

Fruit blindness?

Beard

Are you attracted to women? No? Then maybe you don't know what makes a woman attractive. Also....maybe people have different tastes? Or don't care so much about looks?

I've said this before...remember that Alex is "the hot one" on OITNB...not Piper. White women usually think that men want the thinnest and the blondest chick and that's not always the case.

Control your green-eyed monster, OP.

Curves do it for some men. What you think is chubby might be getting him hot.

Her personality is great.

I’m not plain, but I’m currently chubby. And DH is really hot. So much so that even when he was very ill in the hospital, random techs and nurses kept finding reasons to drop by. He’s always said he married me because I wasn’t so wrapped up in either of our appearances. He knew we could get old together.

Let's be honest, OP. You're jealous. I have an entire group of friends that basically dropped me once I married a guy who was, they thought, way out of my league. We've married ten years, have two children, and are very happy. Your friend is better than you, and you should just go ahead and drop her now so she doesn't have to deal with you in the future.

Curvy girls are hot.

Anonymous wrote:Look at Pierce Brosnan and his wife. Not all men want stick insects.

She wasn’t fat until after they married. Bad example.