OP here, I sent him a picture of an even larger package. He responded, WTF. I blocked him after that.

Anonymous wrote:Just for the record - OP, you did not ASK for a dick pic, right?

No, I did not.

Email back that he obviously has "shortcomings" and then block him.

had did a lot to heal and prepare for dating

I run if I hear this. Either you have issues and in therapy/post-therapy or you are feeding me the fake lines that make some women more likely to sleep with you, thinking that you are serious.
The pics are fitting.

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Anonymous wrote:Female 45 year old here, who is very comfortable with my sexuality and dearly love men and sex - in virtually no circumstance is a penis selfie a turn on to a hetero woman. So what a dumba$$ move especially that early on.

Woman in her 60s here. I think you are wrong! I think there MUST be some women who respond positively to this or guys wouldn't do it at all.

I think guys do it for themselves, mostly. Kind of like being a flasher or masturbating in public - the recipient of such an image is NEVER thrilled. It’s a form of assault in my opinion.

60YO male here. I agree 100%, any man that does this is doing it for his own (perverted) thrill.

As a woman who loves men and sex, I definitely want to see the goods. But not a picture of it. Because, just as women can fudge on what they actually look like (weight, for instance) men could easily send pics that are not really their stuff. So, no.

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Anonymous wrote:We do it because it works, especially with younger women.

I'm 50s and have had many women send me fun photos.

OK I have to ask...what kind of pictures are men looking for? Boob pictures, or more explicit ones?

Good: boob pic
Better: boob pic with your face in it, too
Best: full frontal
Absolute tops: full frontal with your face in it, too

Just for the record - OP, you did not ASK for a dick pic, right?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Female 45 year old here, who is very comfortable with my sexuality and dearly love men and sex - in virtually no circumstance is a penis selfie a turn on to a hetero woman. So what a dumba$$ move especially that early on.

Woman in her 60s here. I think you are wrong! I think there MUST be some women who respond positively to this or guys wouldn't do it at all.

I think guys do it for themselves, mostly. Kind of like being a flasher or masturbating in public - the recipient of such an image is NEVER thrilled. It’s a form of assault in my opinion.

I would love to hear from any guy who did this and it turned out well, meaning it turned into any kind of a relationship, even if it was a one night stand relationship.

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Anonymous wrote:Female 45 year old here, who is very comfortable with my sexuality and dearly love men and sex - in virtually no circumstance is a penis selfie a turn on to a hetero woman. So what a dumba$$ move especially that early on.

Woman in her 60s here. I think you are wrong! I think there MUST be some women who respond positively to this or guys wouldn't do it at all.

I think guys do it for themselves, mostly. Kind of like being a flasher or masturbating in public - the recipient of such an image is NEVER thrilled. It’s a form of assault in my opinion.

Anonymous wrote:Female 45 year old here, who is very comfortable with my sexuality and dearly love men and sex - in virtually no circumstance is a penis selfie a turn on to a hetero woman. So what a dumba$$ move especially that early on.

Woman in her 60s here. I think you are wrong! I think there MUST be some women who respond positively to this or guys wouldn't do it at all.

Because men are idiots. If he was using his other brain, he would think, "I am developing a good rapport with an attractive woman,let's see what happens and perhaps I can use what I was blessed with".

Female 45 year old here, who is very comfortable with my sexuality and dearly love men and sex - in virtually no circumstance is a penis selfie a turn on to a hetero woman. So what a dumba$$ move especially that early on.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We do it because it works, especially with younger women.

I'm 50s and have had many women send me fun photos.

OK I have to ask...what kind of pictures are men looking for? Boob pictures, or more explicit ones?

all of the above.

Most guys reaction to an unsolicited pic would be the exact opposite of the reaction of the women above. Maybe that explains why the dopes send them.

I don't agree and I like to see the sexy pics. It's common in dating younger women these days. But let me ask first. And don't make it look like I'm the 100th guy you've sent that same pic to. And only a really dumb guy ever sends a dicpic unsolicited. Most women will never ask but some do. Just like us guys they want to see what they are getting into. That said, I don't need really explicit pics but a boob shot is great. Even one where she is still in her bra. What I want is more on the lines of photographic proof you are the weight you claim so I do like a full, or mostly full body shot. You are right to reject and even run from a guy who sends a dicpic without you asking. That guy has a lot to learn.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We do it because it works, especially with younger women.

I'm 50s and have had many women send me fun photos.

OK I have to ask...what kind of pictures are men looking for? Boob pictures, or more explicit ones?

all of the above.

Most guys reaction to an unsolicited pic would be the exact opposite of the reaction of the women above. Maybe that explains why the dopes send them.