Enjoy pie. Embrace your age. In the end, we’re all old and wrinkly. You’ll regret not eating that slice of pie.

Society viwes female and male attractiveness differently. It’s pie time when you don’t have to pretend you are 20, or 30. Or 40.

I’m not saying get fat and be unhealthy. Just stop chasing youth. Enjoy the trappings of confidence with age.

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Anonymous wrote:The biology of it is that time isn’t kind to women as far as appearance. We can look good for our age but it’s hard to be ‘hot’ in the conventional sense and menopausal. It sucks. Your only chance is to be kind, stay healthy, get regular exercise and live your life.

Agree but 90 percent of 50 yo men are definitely not hot either !

I know -.but some are! My DH is pretty hot. I work out at a good pace literally every day and I feel like I’m approaching Barbara Bush’s grandma body really quickly at age 50.

Go vegan. Can't get fat on vegetables.

You have to deal with it. My DH was always a good looking guy but when his full head of hair turned silver and his bank account swelled he became very attractive to a lot of divorced women. But we always had a great marriage so it wasn't a problem but I could see how it could have been a problem.

Why assume he's tempted when he travels? Maybe he's in love with you and you're who he thinks about.

I'm almost 49, hot Dh, high earner, and he travels. He calls me all the time, sends me photos, writes me emails and sends texts. He's like a kid at camp wanting to report everything he's doing. We've got the kind of relationship where he can tell me if he's attracted to someone and it just doesn't happen. I'm not saying your dh is like mine, but please don't assume he's tempted just because your have low self-esteem right now. Just lose the weight. It's that simple. And that hard! But you can do it!

Anonymous wrote:Like this guy?

Is it weird I never found him attractive at all?

Also, judging from the pics, it looks like he’s definitely had rhinoplasty.

Anonymous wrote:What's your HHI? Use some of his "high salary" to pay for childcare, self care, therapy, and a personal trainer.

1m plus - I do all of that

Like this guy?

What's your HHI? Use some of his "high salary" to pay for childcare, self care, therapy, and a personal trainer.

Ha, I was going to make a bezos joke too. (About him, not his wife)

Age has definitely hardened his look

actually MacKenzie was never 'hot' but she had the preppy thing going for her, and was actually very nice. He's a billionaire, would he be 'hot' otherwise?
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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The biology of it is that time isn’t kind to women as far as appearance. We can look good for our age but it’s hard to be ‘hot’ in the conventional sense and menopausal. It sucks. Your only chance is to be kind, stay healthy, get regular exercise and live your life.

Agree but 90 percent of 50 yo men are definitely not hot either !

Agree also but 90% of men and 98% of women aren't hot at that age. That 8% is a huge gap.

I'd say it's about equal- 98% of people that age aren't "hot" by society's standards.

Ha, I was going to make a bezos joke too. (About him, not his wife)

Age has definitely hardened his look

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The biology of it is that time isn’t kind to women as far as appearance. We can look good for our age but it’s hard to be ‘hot’ in the conventional sense and menopausal. It sucks. Your only chance is to be kind, stay healthy, get regular exercise and live your life.

Agree but 90 percent of 50 yo men are definitely not hot either !

I know -.but some are! My DH is pretty hot. I work out at a good pace literally every day and I feel like I’m approaching Barbara Bush’s grandma body really quickly at age 50.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The biology of it is that time isn’t kind to women as far as appearance. We can look good for our age but it’s hard to be ‘hot’ in the conventional sense and menopausal. It sucks. Your only chance is to be kind, stay healthy, get regular exercise and live your life.

Agree but 90 percent of 50 yo men are definitely not hot either !

Agree also but 90% of men and 98% of women aren't hot at that age. That 8% is a huge gap.

Anonymous wrote:The biology of it is that time isn’t kind to women as far as appearance. We can look good for our age but it’s hard to be ‘hot’ in the conventional sense and menopausal. It sucks. Your only chance is to be kind, stay healthy, get regular exercise and live your life.

Agree but 90 percent of 50 yo men are definitely not hot either !

Mine too! He just stayed the same, though. Full head of hair, somewhat muscular build, no real weight gain...he’s hot.