Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a runner and many of my FB friends are runners. I enjoy their running posts and they seem to enjoy mine. We are part of a community with an interest in this subject. Feel free to move along. I’m not interested in seeing 75 pictures of your baby that all look exactly the same, but you people post them anyway. “Oh look! It’s Larlo holding a cheerio! Now he’s holding the Cheerio slightly higher in this photo! Not he’s wearing a fire truck shirt and holding a cheerio! Here’s another one where he’s smiling slightly differently!” It’s stupid but I just keep scrolling.
So post to the community.
Anonymous wrote:I am a runner and many of my FB friends are runners. I enjoy their running posts and they seem to enjoy mine. We are part of a community with an interest in this subject. Feel free to move along. I’m not interested in seeing 75 pictures of your baby that all look exactly the same, but you people post them anyway. “Oh look! It’s Larlo holding a cheerio! Now he’s holding the Cheerio slightly higher in this photo! Not he’s wearing a fire truck shirt and holding a cheerio! Here’s another one where he’s smiling slightly differently!” It’s stupid but I just keep scrolling.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How is that worse than selfies, especially heavily edited selfies?
At least the people posting about workouts and runs are posting something authentic, as in not a lie.
I can't tell you how many people posts endless photos of their supposedly picture-perfect families, but the reality is very different.
All social media is a kind of narcissism. It's far worse, IMO, when posts aren't just narcissistic but also not based in reality.
I'm cool if you want to post that you ran 10 miles and you actually did run 10 miles. I'm agitated if you post a doctored photo of your family with an epic "love letter" to your spouse who, in reality, you can't stand.
it's not worse but are these only options? why do it all? why do so many people share so much?
Anonymous wrote:How is that worse than selfies, especially heavily edited selfies?
At least the people posting about workouts and runs are posting something authentic, as in not a lie.
I can't tell you how many people posts endless photos of their supposedly picture-perfect families, but the reality is very different.
All social media is a kind of narcissism. It's far worse, IMO, when posts aren't just narcissistic but also not based in reality.
I'm cool if you want to post that you ran 10 miles and you actually did run 10 miles. I'm agitated if you post a doctored photo of your family with an epic "love letter" to your spouse who, in reality, you can't stand.
Anonymous wrote:I am a runner and many of my FB friends are runners. I enjoy their running posts and they seem to enjoy mine. We are part of a community with an interest in this subject. Feel free to move along. I’m not interested in seeing 75 pictures of your baby that all look exactly the same, but you people post them anyway. “Oh look! It’s Larlo holding a cheerio! Now he’s holding the Cheerio slightly higher in this photo! Not he’s wearing a fire truck shirt and holding a cheerio! Here’s another one where he’s smiling slightly differently!” It’s stupid but I just keep scrolling.
Anonymous wrote:I am a runner and many of my FB friends are runners. I enjoy their running posts and they seem to enjoy mine. We are part of a community with an interest in this subject. Feel free to move along. I’m not interested in seeing 75 pictures of your baby that all look exactly the same, but you people post them anyway. “Oh look! It’s Larlo holding a cheerio! Now he’s holding the Cheerio slightly higher in this photo! Not he’s wearing a fire truck shirt and holding a cheerio! Here’s another one where he’s smiling slightly differently!” It’s stupid but I just keep scrolling.
Anonymous wrote:I am a runner and many of my FB friends are runners. I enjoy their running posts and they seem to enjoy mine. We are part of a community with an interest in this subject. Feel free to move along. I’m not interested in seeing 75 pictures of your baby that all look exactly the same, but you people post them anyway. “Oh look! It’s Larlo holding a cheerio! Now he’s holding the Cheerio slightly higher in this photo! Not he’s wearing a fire truck shirt and holding a cheerio! Here’s another one where he’s smiling slightly differently!” It’s stupid but I just keep scrolling.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anybody else know people like this? Who have to tell people every time they go to the gym, run etc... and then need to post their run on Facebook, post their orange theory results etc...
Is it narcissism? Eating disorder? Low self esteem? I just can't figure it out.
For example:
Me: "what are you doing this weekend?
Coworker: "not too much, going to the gym tonight, meeting some friends for dinner then going for a long run Saturday and Sunday.
Friend: (posts picture of pizza and then captions it with something about needing to go to the gym). This is constant. Always posting orange theory results.
Like we get it-you work out. Why the constant need to let people know?
They do it deliberately to irk you, OP.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Everyone has a “thing”. This is theirs. Block them if it bothers you, but it’s not worth your mental energy to think about it.
+1. Also, being honest that your plan is to go for a long run isn’t bragging.