Anonymous wrote:Another single mom who would prefer to have sex in a LTR. Threads such as morning sex one are depressing

OP here. That's what inspired me to write this thread!

Anonymous wrote:Single mom. It’s been 18 months with no one in the horizon.

Yes I know. Pick a bar, find a guy, get laid. However, that’s not what I’m interested in. So until I find myself in an exclusive, committed relationship, there’s no sex in my future.

Just chiming in to say I admire this attitude as a a guy and your next serious boyfriend will too.

Another single mom who would prefer to have sex in a LTR. Threads such as morning sex one are depressing

Anonymous wrote:And there's no one on the horizon.

I'm a single mom and not dating. Met my last partner through a mutual friend.

The phrase "all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy" is resonating.

Vent over.

There are a ton of ways to meet men to just have sex, you just need to worry about STD's.

My mom started dating again after 20 years with no boyfriend. It sucks that it took her that long to put herself out there, but now she's in a long term relationship and having lots of sex, according to her.

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Anonymous wrote:Married and closing in on 144 months, so 3.5 doesn’t seem so bad.

What? Why?

Seriously.

OR: I married a man who has low-t and no interest in sex. We never had a very active sex life, but I wasn’t expecting zero. I tried initiating, for years, and eventually stopped. We get along well and, at 46, am not interested in looking for someone new and completely destroying my child’s life. It’s my new normal.

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Anonymous wrote:I am married. Going on month 60. Deal.

I agree with you. I’ve been there with you and married. 3.5 months is nothing,

Me too. Over 5 yrs. Maybe I am a fool. I have tried all I can to get my wife to come back. I am near the end of trying.

I'm sorry. If you've tried everything, it's open marriage time. Just declare it, in response to her declaration.

+1 long overdue. Head out tonight and break that drought.

I am male. Until I started reading DCUM, I thought this was a male only problem.

I have had some looooonnnngg gaps: from 21 to 29, no sex. I did not have the self confidence to ask a woman out.

From 29-40, a lot of sex (discovered I had stuff to offer, but only one partner after 34).

At about 40, she lost interest. I have had sex 1 time in the last two years. I get it.

At times, I have thought about a massage parlor....just to have a female touch my body. But, I do not like the idea of trafficking or diseases. I know where to go, but haven't. I do not want to cheat on my wife, but I do not want to live like this for the rest of my life.

Our child is currently going through tough times, and I think separation would be horrible for her and would result in her cutting again (it has been less than 2 months since she last cut).

So, I live celibately. I rarely masturbate, as that now leaves me frustrated. And when I do, the mess is huge because I rarely masturbate.

So, yes, women of DCUM. I sympathize, but probably can not help.

Anonymous wrote:And there's no one on the horizon.

I'm a single mom and not dating. Met my last partner through a mutual friend.

The phrase "all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy" is resonating.

Vent over.

been almost 2 years for me. separated dad. and even then it was starfish sex, just awful. rather have my right hand than that anymore.

Anonymous wrote:I am married. Going on month 60. Deal.

Why do you hard up married guys always hijack female threads? This is about a single parent’s sex life. Your drought is not the same type. Deal with your marriage and personal identity.

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Anonymous wrote:I am married. Going on month 60. Deal.

I agree with you. I’ve been there with you and married. 3.5 months is nothing,

Me too. Over 5 yrs. Maybe I am a fool. I have tried all I can to get my wife to come back. I am near the end of trying.

Previous poster here. I finally initiated after 4 years (so not quite as long as you). I am a woman. I thought 4 years is crazy even though I had lost my drive for a long time. Sorry you are dealing with this.

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Anonymous wrote:I am married. Going on month 60. Deal.

I agree with you. I’ve been there with you and married. 3.5 months is nothing,

Me too. Over 5 yrs. Maybe I am a fool. I have tried all I can to get my wife to come back. I am near the end of trying.

I'm sorry. If you've tried everything, it's open marriage time. Just declare it, in response to her declaration.

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Anonymous wrote:I am married. Going on month 60. Deal.

I agree with you. I’ve been there with you and married. 3.5 months is nothing,

Me too. Over 5 yrs. Maybe I am a fool. I have tried all I can to get my wife to come back. I am near the end of trying.

Anonymous wrote:Quite a few married men that are in town for the weekend on Tinder. Check it out, wealthy ones too.

How can you tell they are wealthy on Tinder??

Maybe if you did more house work?