Anonymous wrote:If he finds the academically stronger schools on that list "too studious," he would probably have a hard time as an engineering major. So, I wouldn't necessarily prioritize engineering programs when you keep looking.
Yup, and engineering programs often have separate admissions, with higher stats. Business, too (although not as much as engineering).
Honestly, OP. I think it is time for your family to stop touring and spend some time learning more about how to tell the schools apart based on programs and attributes that matter. You already learned enough about Your kid's vague preferences.
But if you think the vibe at UNC and Boulder is the same, I recommend talking to some American friends. The kids at Boulder look really happy and healthy. They are there, at least in part, because they love the outdoors. But if your family didn't notice any evidence of the pot culture, you didn't know how to look.