Anonymous wrote:I'm a failure of a mother and did nothing/sent nothing. Just completely forgot.
I swear, I need a sister wife that is good at paying attention to the sweet things like Valentine's and stuff because I just suck at it. I'll cook for her, clean for her, pay all the bills, I just need someone to do the emotional labor of remembering to make the effort on things like this.
I feel you. Also, aren't all kids that are in daycare there because they have two working parents who are limited on time? If I am supposed to do something, just tell me. Magically having to know about this stuff as a first time (and probably one and done) parent is so frustrating.