Anonymous
02/10/2018 09:09
Subject: Re:Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Do you really not know anyone who has married/remarried at an older age? My mother and grandmother remarried at 50+ (they outlived all their DHs). Most of their friends who divorced or were widowed remarried. Of course, there's always more women than men but it's far less common to have a significant age gap between spouses - unless, of course, you're looking for a wealthy man who may see a much younger woman as a status symbol.
Anonymous
02/10/2018 08:58
Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Don't find Katie or Gillian exceptionally attractive. Well-maintained but no more.
Anonymous
02/10/2018 08:52
Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why do people always post pictures of celebrities when discussing aging? These pictures are taken by professionals, in ideal lighting and then retouched. I feel sorry for you women who try to compare yourselves with these photos. You'll always lose.
I've seen many celebrities in person (media job) and believe me, they don't look anything close to their public photos.
I had a client who was a news anchor and it was amazing how different she looked on tv vs in real life. On tv she was easily a 9, in person she was maybe a 6.
I met Wendy Rieger at a humane society event. She looked older than my mom.
Anonymous
02/10/2018 08:47
Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
30 is the magic number for women. It's down hill (very slowly) from there. Once they hit 40 it's like a runaway truck flying down the mountain.
Anonymous
02/10/2018 08:37
Subject: Re:Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:I hope I look like Gillian Anderson at that age
LOL good luck!!
Anonymous
02/10/2018 08:24
Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:Why do people always post pictures of celebrities when discussing aging? These pictures are taken by professionals, in ideal lighting and then retouched. I feel sorry for you women who try to compare yourselves with these photos. You'll always lose.
I've seen many celebrities in person (media job) and believe me, they don't look anything close to their public photos.
Right? I work in the media and my professional photos and even what you see on TV is NOT how I look, not at all.
Ladies, just stop. You have impossible expectations.
Anonymous
02/10/2018 08:11
Subject: Re:Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Not a chance. There are tons of desperate women in their late 30's- early 40's. Women in their 50's would be reasonable for guys in their 60's with little game/money/looks.
Anonymous
02/10/2018 07:43
Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
The upside is that they usually have been through the ringer in a divorce and child rearing and are much less uptight and willing to experiment/engage in things younger girls aren’t. Some are remarkably attractive as they go through the post divorce recovery in order to “show their ex husbands.”
The good ones will have a decent divorce package so will often treat for dates etc without making you feel guilty. The women in 50s I’ve dated haven’t really wanted a true partnership having been married and btdt.
Every time I have a relationship with one of them though I end up feeling a little empty and looking for more out of a relationship. So I tend to go for the 36 or so to 40 range. Women that age still seem to believe in long term partnership.
50yo divorced male.
The good ones will have a decent divorce package so will often treat for dates etc without making you feel guilty. The women in 50s I’ve dated haven’t really wanted a true partnership having been married and btdt.
Every time I have a relationship with one of them though I end up feeling a little empty and looking for more out of a relationship. So I tend to go for the 36 or so to 40 range. Women that age still seem to believe in long term partnership.
50yo divorced male.
Anonymous
02/10/2018 06:52
Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:61 yo man. Sorry but 40s is the age I look to date. Very few woman I've seen hold up well into their 50s and past menopause.
I’m a 42yr old woman. The idea of dating someone 20 yrs older than me seems odd. I think of the long term. When I’m 62, you’d be 81. Do you find many 40 yr old women to date?
Anonymous
02/10/2018 06:45
Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
54 yo man here. Answer is yes. But I also found some 50 yo women attractive when I was in my late 20's. I dated one for 5 years (28-33), until I came to the realization that I wanted to be a father.
Anonymous
02/10/2018 02:21
Subject: Re:Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Not only yes, my 58 year old wife is both in shape and easily looks 40. Almost a young Katie Couric.
Anonymous
02/10/2018 02:14
Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:Yes totally. In shape 50yo beats a 22yo in my book any day
+1
Anonymous
02/10/2018 02:10
Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
61 yo man. Sorry but 40s is the age I look to date. Very few woman I've seen hold up well into their 50s and past menopause.
Anonymous
02/10/2018 00:41
Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:52yo man here. Yes, though I confess I am more attracted to the 35-45yo set. So shoot me.
Same, I prefer men 30-45: I am a woman in her 50s. Most people in their 50s look pretty bad... that’s the age where any bad habits like being out of shape, tanning, smoking, etc really shows in one’s looks.
Anonymous
02/09/2018 23:43
Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
52yo man here. Yes, though I confess I am more attracted to the 35-45yo set. So shoot me.