Anonymous wrote:Since I would be paying for the eAP xam, and I have agreed to pay for the additional tuition this plan would incur...I an entitled to use the word "we."
Actually, since I am also the author of the post, I can use whatever pronoun I choose.
OP, you are not alone. My writing preference is using 'we' because I was taught it's all inclusive, but people on this board think they are Sherlock uncovering a huge conspiracy where a parent is helping their child. I wonder if in real life they are applauded for being so clever or do they silently seethe with contempt. If taking AP exams will add stress to their final year in high school, then don't take them. Not all kids do well on exams. But if the exams will not be used for deferring classes, maybe tell your DC to take the exam without any expectations. It might ease anxiety.