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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I got a BJ from a thirty something year old married mom that I occasionally worked for when I was 16. As a 45 year old guy, I think it's totally wrong now, but 16 year old me still high fives anyone that asks.

I would do it all over again in a heartbeat and have zero regrets.

NP. As a mother, if I had a son, I would be so angry at this. I'm curious to know if you are a father, and whether you have a son. Or, if you have a daughter, how you would feel if she did this to a 16 year old once she turned 30?

As the father of a (grown) daughter who has been groped in bars, and as the husband of a woman who was once raped, I find the concern of mothers about their sons to be a tad misplaced. The boy old enough to go work in the mines back in the day gets shown the ropes? Lucky guy.

You are an ass. Seriously think back to when you were 16. Would you sleep with your mother’s friend? I have been in a situation like that it’s not fun. They are not showing you the ropes. I have also been groped in bars by women, had a woman break into my room and jump in bed when I am sleeping(had a girlfriend at the time), been stalked, etc. These things would happen to my friend and me a lot. People like you would always laugh it off. You are part of the problem. How you do not have a kid.

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Anonymous wrote:Is the thread about dating or having sex with high school girls? When I was in college I had sex with girls in high school as well as girls in college. I definitely wouldn't call it dating and I never pretended otherwise. At that age I had no interest at all in a committed relationship and it was entirely based on how physically attractive the person was and how easy it would be to get them to have sex with me.

Why not find someone your own age to use?

I wrote in my post that I also had sex with girls in college as well who were my age.

Anonymous wrote:Is the thread about dating or having sex with high school girls? When I was in college I had sex with girls in high school as well as girls in college. I definitely wouldn't call it dating and I never pretended otherwise. At that age I had no interest at all in a committed relationship and it was entirely based on how physically attractive the person was and how easy it would be to get them to have sex with me.

Why not find someone your own age to use?

Is the thread about dating or having sex with high school girls? When I was in college I had sex with girls in high school as well as girls in college. I definitely wouldn't call it dating and I never pretended otherwise. At that age I had no interest at all in a committed relationship and it was entirely based on how physically attractive the person was and how easy it would be to get them to have sex with me.

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Anonymous wrote:OP again. To think about having sex with a 17 year old boy is just so gross and wrong to me. I would consider him a child.

Maybe it’s different for men?

I am a 43 year old man, I think its gross. Any 27 yo guy dating a high school girl most likely couldn't find someone his own age

Half your age plus seven holds up remarkably well. A 27 year old shouldn't be dating anyone under 20.

Anonymous wrote:OP again. To think about having sex with a 17 year old boy is just so gross and wrong to me. I would consider him a child.

Maybe it’s different for men?

I am a 43 year old man, I think its gross. Any 27 yo guy dating a high school girl most likely couldn't find someone his own age

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I got a BJ from a thirty something year old married mom that I occasionally worked for when I was 16. As a 45 year old guy, I think it's totally wrong now, but 16 year old me still high fives anyone that asks.

I would do it all over again in a heartbeat and have zero regrets.

NP. As a mother, if I had a son, I would be so angry at this. I'm curious to know if you are a father, and whether you have a son. Or, if you have a daughter, how you would feel if she did this to a 16 year old once she turned 30?

As the father of a (grown) daughter who has been groped in bars, and as the husband of a woman who was once raped, I find the concern of mothers about their sons to be a tad misplaced. The boy old enough to go work in the mines back in the day gets shown the ropes? Lucky guy.

Girls' desire and ability to date older guys at the time when a lot of my views about sexuality and gender were forming created a huge blind spot for me in terms of thinking about gender, privilege, and power.

In high school, and to a certain extent in college, it seemed to me that girls/women had all the power. Early on girls/women had a much bigger pool of guys they could reasonably expect to date versus the girls/women available to a teenage boy/young man.

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Anonymous wrote:So 20 years ago you had a consensual sexual relationship that demonstrated bad judgment and bad parenting, and you think that was a #metoo moment?

You are really trivializing the experiences of women who were actually sexually harassed/assaulted.

None of us have done anything of the sort.

Exactly. This is a SPIN OFF thread. About inappropriate relationships.