I don't blame him. Restaurant week sucks.

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he didn't want to go out. Maybe he doesn't like the people you were with. There's many reasons. Just because YOU are in a social mood doesn't mean your spouse is.

Then he could've been an adult and stayed home.

OP I feel your pain. My DH often ruins infrequent chances for me to enjoy myself in situations like the one you described. It wouldn't matter if there were lot's of opportunities to enjoy life, but when you are on a budget and tight on time and you schedule a special chance to have fun, it really sucks when your spouse ruins it with a bad attitude.

Anonymous wrote:OP simply tell your DH, "Honey, I thought we had a deal. You pretend to enjoy spending time with my friends, and I pretend to enjoy having sex with you. Last night you didn't hold up your end of the deal. If it happens again, I'll have to withdraw from my end of the deal."

DH: That's fine sweetie. I've been sleeping with another woman for the last year since we don't have sex anymore anyway.