Anonymous
Post 01/26/2018 18:37     Subject: Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?
You are old enough to have children and an ex-husband, and this is what you care about?
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2018 18:30     Subject: Re:Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?
He was definitely giving you a compliment, and as a 2/4, you are a small person, so you definitely don't have to worry that he thought you were large. What you should have done as a response was rub your hand down the curve of your hip and then grabbed his hand and did the same with it. That's sexy. A man loves nice curves.
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2018 18:14     Subject: Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?
Anonymous wrote:If he is having sex with you, then he likely wouldn't have meant it in a negative way. If he thought you were actually fat (and just happy to be getting some) then he would have shut up. But since he was bold enough to say "you have hips" I think you can confidently assume he meant "you have [delightfully sexy] hips."

I am not making this theory up to make you feel good. I am a divorced dad and I have been there done that and I can't imagine other men being much different. In other words, if it turns out the girl looks unattractive naked what's the point in say anything! But if you think she's sexy you tell her, to let her know she is appreciated and that maybe more frequently she will let you enter her and achieve orgasm! Which of course is the goal of the man. And is easier if the girl is into you (and you get her into you by compliments and not backhanded criticism."

Get it?


Yeah, this. I'm an insecure female and wouldn't have thought twice about that. Especially after sex. Lucky you.
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2018 18:04     Subject: Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?
I wish I had hips. Super sexy
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2018 18:02     Subject: Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?
Another vote for it being a compliment. I think he was pleasantly surprised to find sexy, curvy hips on you when it sounds like he thought you were pretty thin.
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2018 17:49     Subject: Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?
Anonymous wrote:Keep telling him you are fat and how bad your body is... pretty soon you will convince him you are right!

This is so true.
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2018 17:17     Subject: Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A curvy girl with substantial hips and a big curve in from hip to waist just drives me wild. I have to think the guy was very happy with what he saw.


Yuck


If anorexic, stick-women are your thing, then you do you.
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2018 16:46     Subject: Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?
Anonymous wrote:A curvy girl with substantial hips and a big curve in from hip to waist just drives me wild. I have to think the guy was very happy with what he saw.


Yuck
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2018 16:42     Subject: Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?
Humblebrag
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2018 16:35     Subject: Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?
Men like hips, it was a positive statement.
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2018 16:33     Subject: Re:Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?
Anonymous wrote:That was rude of him


To agree with her. The bastard!
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2018 15:53     Subject: Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?
Keep telling him you are fat and how bad your body is... pretty soon you will convince him you are right!
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2018 15:49     Subject: Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?
Anonymous wrote:Going thru a divorce and have not been with anyone except my ex since having children. I am not fat (size 2/4) but curvy. I was having dinner with a guy that I’m into and we were talking about the gym. I said that I don’t have time to work out and he asked how I could be so thin. I laughed and said well I’m not THAT thin, I have big hips! A week later we were in bed for the first time and he saw me naked. He said “You’re right, you DO have hips!” And laughed. The way he said it made it sound like a positive, but I am obviously sensitive about my body and I keep replaying that in my head. I don’t think that’s really a compliment, lol. Just wondering what others thoughts are. Does he think I’m fat?

No way can you relate the above in a way that enables me to give you a meaning to what he said.

However, I did notice he didn't say BIG hips.
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2018 15:45     Subject: Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If he is having sex with you, then he likely wouldn't have meant it in a negative way. If he thought you were actually fat (and just happy to be getting some) then he would have shut up. But since he was bold enough to say "you have hips" I think you can confidently assume he meant "you have [delightfully sexy] hips."

I am not making this theory up to make you feel good. I am a divorced dad and I have been there done that and I can't imagine other men being much different. In other words, if it turns out the girl looks unattractive naked what's the point in say anything! But if you think she's sexy you tell her, to let her know she is appreciated and that maybe more frequently she will let you enter her and achieve orgasm! Which of course is the goal of the man. And is easier if the girl is into you (and you get her into you by compliments and not backhanded criticism."

Get it?


Thanks for your advice! I appreciate that! I hope you are right


You're welcome. I notice some people after me were calling you neurotic. This is not annoying to me. I totally got what you were saying. Maybe it's the whole divorce thing, which can impact your self image. Don't listen to any of the negativity here.

Oh, and continue to treat us sincere and nice single dads to some good sex. We really appreciate it, it's a super human kindness. I've luckily been blessed. Sounds like another lucky guy is blessed. So go forth!!
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2018 15:43     Subject: Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?
I've noticed that men like hips. Period. Especially naked ones