Anonymous
Post 01/03/2018 21:05     Subject: If you're married but still carry a torch for someone
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Who knew the Germans had such mystique!?!?


Or maybe it is the same guy?


Haha
Anonymous
Post 01/03/2018 20:58     Subject: If you're married but still carry a torch for someone
Anonymous wrote:Who knew the Germans had such mystique!?!?


Or maybe it is the same guy?
Anonymous
Post 01/03/2018 19:16     Subject: If you're married but still carry a torch for someone
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Who knew the Germans had such mystique!?!?


Haha damn, seriously! I believe there are 3(4?) German men mentioned on this thread...I feel like I'm missing out


For one thing, Germans are very precise. He will measure you width and depth before insert.


They have online pamphlets explaining it all step by step - aimed at adults.
Anonymous
Post 01/03/2018 18:41     Subject: If you're married but still carry a torch for someone
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Who knew the Germans had such mystique!?!?


Haha damn, seriously! I believe there are 3(4?) German men mentioned on this thread...I feel like I'm missing out


For one thing, Germans are very precise. He will measure you width and depth before insert.


Anonymous
Post 01/03/2018 14:41     Subject: If you're married but still carry a torch for someone
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Who knew the Germans had such mystique!?!?


Haha damn, seriously! I believe there are 3(4?) German men mentioned on this thread...I feel like I'm missing out


For one thing, Germans are very precise. He will measure you width and depth before insert.
Anonymous
Post 01/03/2018 14:34     Subject: If you're married but still carry a torch for someone
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My ex wife... Still love her and probably always will.


That’s sad. Why did you get divorced?


Because I am a shit head.
Anonymous
Post 01/03/2018 14:34     Subject: If you're married but still carry a torch for someone
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My ex wife... Still love her and probably always will.


How many years has it been? Who initiated the divorce?

This is my fear when it comes to dating men who are divorced. If you like someone enough to marry them, does those feelings ever go away?


My husband and I were both divorced when we met, and I promise you, neither of us would EVER go back to our exes! Some people may be different, but we have no contact and don't discuss them anymore and will hopefully never see them again. There are NO feelings there anymore.
Anonymous
Post 01/03/2018 14:33     Subject: If you're married but still carry a torch for someone
Anonymous wrote:We can't be in contact. We tried to be friends but the chemistry was still palpable and it would have been a recipe for disaster.


My friend did this to me. I was fine being friends because I would choose my husband over him, but he wished he had ended up with me instead of his wife. It sucks because I valued our friendship.
Anonymous
Post 01/03/2018 11:36     Subject: Re:If you're married but still carry a torch for someone
"carry a torch"? First I've heard of this phrase.

But, never mind me. Carry on. (pun intended)
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2018 22:21     Subject: If you're married but still carry a torch for someone
Anonymous wrote:My ex wife... Still love her and probably always will.


How many years has it been? Who initiated the divorce?

This is my fear when it comes to dating men who are divorced. If you like someone enough to marry them, does those feelings ever go away?
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2018 20:38     Subject: If you're married but still carry a torch for someone
I’ve been happily married for years and have 2 amazing kids and a great life. I often think about a guy I was in love with growing up. We went to church and youth group together but different high schools. He was a few years older, a senior when I was a freshman (but he was only 2.5 years older than me if that makes sense?) but I wasn’t allowed to date until I turned 16... Of course, this was before social media and texting so by the time we could date, we only saw each other during his college breaks and I started dating another guy. We did get to go on one “official” date while my HS boyfriend and I were broken up over one Christmas and it was so amazing. But of course we drifted apart. We were just so young and innocent but I think so fondly of him and that time of my life. I’ve tried unsuccessfully a few times to find him on Facebook, but a Google search finds him married with kids across the country. I’m just so curious as to what would have happened if we had a chance way back then...
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2018 20:20     Subject: If you're married but still carry a torch for someone
Anonymous wrote:My ex wife... Still love her and probably always will.


That’s sad. Why did you get divorced?
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2018 19:58     Subject: If you're married but still carry a torch for someone
Met while both of us were away at college. I moved home, he was from another city 3 hours away. It didn’t work out. He’s now married and living a few houses down from the home my parents lived in when they had me. It’s effing weird.
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2018 19:51     Subject: If you're married but still carry a torch for someone
No. My wife is plenty of woman for me.
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2018 18:32     Subject: If you're married but still carry a torch for someone
My ex wife... Still love her and probably always will.