Anonymous wrote:OP, it sounds like you are doing pretty well.
For comparison, I am 50 now, with two teens approaching college.
I am a Fed, DH a teacher. A decade ago, when we were your age, our HHI was about $145,000, and were putting away 5% for retirement, plus getting the 5% federal match. Plus, we were putting away a few hundred each month for college for our children. At that point, our retirement account had about $200,000, and we had $50,000 total in college savings accounts.
Fast forward ten years. HHI is now about $180,000. We have continued to save at the same pace - 5% in the retirement account, plus 5% federal match, and now up to about $1,000 per month into college savings. Right now we have $600,000 in our retirement accounts, plus $220,000 in total college savings - enough to pay for in-state tuition for both our children for four years.
I think we are in pretty good shape - and you are ahead of where we were ten years ago. So congrats and keep it up!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are 35, 2 kids in daycare. Making about $175k combined. Can't Max out anything at the moment. Just trying to survive with the big daycare bill. I pay $400/month student loan bill too. We have about $240k combined in 401k accounts and about 15k emergency fund. No cc debt and no car payments.
Hope to improve things a bit when our oldest starts kindergarten in 2019.
Once you pay off your student loans and get out from under daycare you will free up a ton of money to invest for retirement. You can only do what you can do and your lack of cc and car debt means you have a lot of discipline.
Anonymous wrote:We are 35, 2 kids in daycare. Making about $175k combined. Can't Max out anything at the moment. Just trying to survive with the big daycare bill. I pay $400/month student loan bill too. We have about $240k combined in 401k accounts and about 15k emergency fund. No cc debt and no car payments.
Hope to improve things a bit when our oldest starts kindergarten in 2019.
Anonymous wrote:We are 37/35 and our HHI is close to 400k. We both have student loans, her more so than me, which sucks because I generate more than 3/4 of our income. We have about $250k in home equity, $350k combined in 401k assets, $85k in cash, and about another $100k in other investments. I also have some other liquid collectible stuff, like a vintage Porsche I could sell for probably $125-150k.
I agree with the PP that student loans are a gigantic difference. The other difference is my employer (a law firm) has never matched my 401k contributions, which has limited the growth of those accounts. Also, housing here is expensive, and we paid premium to have a decent sized house within close driving distance of downtown.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are 37/35 and our HHI is close to 400k. We both have student loans, her more so than me, which sucks because I generate more than 3/4 of our income. We have about $250k in home equity, $350k combined in 401k assets, $85k in cash, and about another $100k in other investments. I also have some other liquid collectible stuff, like a vintage Porsche I could sell for probably $125-150k.
I agree with the PP that student loans are a gigantic difference. The other difference is my employer (a law firm) has never matched my 401k contributions, which has limited the growth of those accounts. Also, housing here is expensive, and we paid premium to have a decent sized house within close driving distance of downtown.
Thanks for your input but if you are a 400k HHI please don’t respond as “middle class”
Seriously clueless.
NP. Then what is the line between MC and UMC? Do you consider 400k UMC or something else?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are 37/35 and our HHI is close to 400k. We both have student loans, her more so than me, which sucks because I generate more than 3/4 of our income. We have about $250k in home equity, $350k combined in 401k assets, $85k in cash, and about another $100k in other investments. I also have some other liquid collectible stuff, like a vintage Porsche I could sell for probably $125-150k.
I agree with the PP that student loans are a gigantic difference. The other difference is my employer (a law firm) has never matched my 401k contributions, which has limited the growth of those accounts. Also, housing here is expensive, and we paid premium to have a decent sized house within close driving distance of downtown.
Thanks for your input but if you are a 400k HHI please don’t respond as “middle class”
Seriously clueless.
Anonymous wrote:We are 48 & 53 and make a combined 120k, which is poor here on DCUM. But I consider ourselves middle class - even upper middle class. DH started working at 18 full time and the best advice his older brother game him was to put the max possible into his 401K, which was easy since he was living at home and didn't really have any expenses. Fast forward and he's got $750K in his 401K. DH went to college part time - took him over 10 years to get his degree, and every class was paid for by his employer. He has worked in the IT field and has been in a "professional" position since he got his degree. I worked for the fed govt for 14 years, was a stay at home mom for 9 and now work very part time. I have $350K in my 401K - again maxing it out while I was with the govt and haven't contributed a dime since I left the workforce. We have managed to save $37,000 in 529's for our three children. Thanks to a wealthy aunt, the kids also have 529s that are funded enough for in-state tuition. We never had any student loans and we won't let our children take out student loans.
DH and I bought a modest home when we first got married - paid $200,000 in 1998 and its now worth $600,000 so we have significant equity. We keep our cars forever. We currently have a car payment - DH drives a 5 year old car and I just traded in our 12 year old minivan. DH will most likely not get a new car until a couple of years after my SUV is paid off. We don't take a vacation every year and we only eat out once or twice a month. We do live almost paycheck to paycheck but I don't regret not returning to my former career. We are healthy, happy, have a roof over our heads, food in our bellies, clothes on our backs. No we aren't jetting off to Europe and the Caribbean every year, but we are in much better shape than a significant portion of the country.