Anonymous
Post 12/29/2017 14:02     Subject: Re: Would you tell a spouse that their husband was cheating?

Yes, tell her.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2017 13:49     Subject: Would you tell a spouse that their husband was cheating?

You should tell otherwise he might infect his wife with an STD. This has happened before.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2017 13:37     Subject: Re: Would you tell a spouse that their husband was cheating?

Yes
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2017 13:37     Subject: Re: Would you tell a spouse that their husband was cheating?

Anonymous wrote:I would tell the husband either he tells his wife, or I will. He has 48 hours. He's putting her at risk of STD's. Unacceptable.


I did this. Friend told me, I sat on it for s day or so. Called the friend back and told him he had 24 hours to tell his wife (who I had a long friendship with) or I would. He spilled immediately.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2017 13:36     Subject: Re: Would you tell a spouse that their husband was cheating?

Yes
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2017 13:31     Subject: Would you tell a spouse that their husband was cheating?

Anonymous wrote:Victim spouse here. Please tell. We have a right to make decisions about our own lives based on the truth, not lies. Don't do it anonymously. Share hard proof if you have it. Tell victim spouse that you respect them enough to tell them the truth as you know it and that you also respect them enough to know that it is entirely their choice what to do with that knowledge and, if you are a friend and not mere acquaintance, that you are there to support them in whatever way they need.


This. He is robbing her of her autonomy and risking her health. Please tell.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2017 12:54     Subject: Re: Would you tell a spouse that their husband was cheating?

I would tell the husband either he tells his wife, or I will. He has 48 hours. He's putting her at risk of STD's. Unacceptable.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2017 12:53     Subject: Would you tell a spouse that their husband was cheating?

Yes and I have done this. My friend did not hold it against me.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2017 11:52     Subject: Would you tell a spouse that their husband was cheating?

Anonymous wrote:Victim spouse here. Please tell. We have a right to make decisions about our own lives based on the truth, not lies. Don't do it anonymously. Share hard proof if you have it. Tell victim spouse that you respect them enough to tell them the truth as you know it and that you also respect them enough to know that it is entirely their choice what to do with that knowledge and, if you are a friend and not mere acquaintance, that you are there to support them in whatever way they need.



+1
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2017 11:45     Subject: Would you tell a spouse that their husband was cheating?

Anonymous wrote:Victim spouse here. Please tell. We have a right to make decisions about our own lives based on the truth, not lies. Don't do it anonymously. Share hard proof if you have it. Tell victim spouse that you respect them enough to tell them the truth as you know it and that you also respect them enough to know that it is entirely their choice what to do with that knowledge and, if you are a friend and not mere acquaintance, that you are there to support them in whatever way they need.


Yes, but not everyone is as rational as you. If you are a good friend, you probably know how they would react to the news.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2017 10:35     Subject: Would you tell a spouse that their husband was cheating?

Victim spouse here. Please tell. We have a right to make decisions about our own lives based on the truth, not lies. Don't do it anonymously. Share hard proof if you have it. Tell victim spouse that you respect them enough to tell them the truth as you know it and that you also respect them enough to know that it is entirely their choice what to do with that knowledge and, if you are a friend and not mere acquaintance, that you are there to support them in whatever way they need.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2017 10:12     Subject: Re: Would you tell a spouse that their husband was cheating?

Wish someone would tell my AP's wife.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2017 09:54     Subject: Would you tell a spouse that their husband was cheating?

Of course. You have an ethical obligation to tell.