Be supportive, don’t smother her, as much as you’d love to be there in her life and moving toward repairing your marriage, maybe she needs time to herself. Use this time off to work on yourself and building the skills necessary to sustain a marriage, to rebuild one that has been shattered, and truly work on the deficits only you know about. There is something wrong, find it, and repair it, get counseling, ask her to attend sessions with you…ask her out on dates, court and woo her. What do you think?

Anonymous wrote:Start by being more accommodating to his sexual proclivities.

Sorry. I mean HER proclivities. I have a bad habit of only reading half of the thread title and half of the original post.