Anonymous wrote:I had a gas leak and called the fire department and the guys who showed up were calendar material. Dreams of doing them all danced in my head....but just briefly. But a girl can dream, right?

Why are firemen always so damn.... muscular?

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I just feel ... guilty and bad about thinking about this guy. Most of the time that I see him, he’s with his wife and they seem to have a good relationship. I just feel like a bad person, maybe because I was once cheated on.

Are you super catholic? This is odd. Innocent fantasies are OK.

+1

Smile at him. You may make his day.

My attractive wife and I have a good relationship, and I still like when attractive women smile at me.

Ha yes I am Catholic! But that’s not why I feel this way... he just seems like a good person/husband and I feel guilty fantasizing about him!

Are you objectively hotter than his DW? If so, then smile at him and see how he responds. Chat and see where it goes. Maybe he married his DW when he could only get a 5, and now he’s grown into his looks and with his career in place he could get an 8.

If you’re hotter than his DW, then be that 8 he could never get before. You don’t have to leave your DW. Just because you have a fling doesn’t mean you want to leave, unless this guy is on such an upswing in his career that you’re better off even factoring in the divorce costs.

Wow, this is amazing. This is obviously written by an insecure woman.

OP here and yes I am hotter and younger than his wife....but wow. Yikes. If I feel bad for having dirty thoughts about a married man, I can't even imagine how I'd feel having a fling with one. Damn conscience.

How far have your fantasies gone?

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I just feel ... guilty and bad about thinking about this guy. Most of the time that I see him, he’s with his wife and they seem to have a good relationship. I just feel like a bad person, maybe because I was once cheated on.

Are you super catholic? This is odd. Innocent fantasies are OK.

+1

Smile at him. You may make his day.

My attractive wife and I have a good relationship, and I still like when attractive women smile at me.

Ha yes I am Catholic! But that’s not why I feel this way... he just seems like a good person/husband and I feel guilty fantasizing about him!

Are you objectively hotter than his DW? If so, then smile at him and see how he responds. Chat and see where it goes. Maybe he married his DW when he could only get a 5, and now he’s grown into his looks and with his career in place he could get an 8.

If you’re hotter than his DW, then be that 8 he could never get before. You don’t have to leave your DW. Just because you have a fling doesn’t mean you want to leave, unless this guy is on such an upswing in his career that you’re better off even factoring in the divorce costs.

Wow, this is amazing. This is obviously written by an insecure woman.

OP here and yes I am hotter and younger than his wife....but wow. Yikes. If I feel bad for having dirty thoughts about a married man, I can't even imagine how I'd feel having a fling with one. Damn conscience.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I just feel ... guilty and bad about thinking about this guy. Most of the time that I see him, he’s with his wife and they seem to have a good relationship. I just feel like a bad person, maybe because I was once cheated on.

Are you super catholic? This is odd. Innocent fantasies are OK.

+1

Smile at him. You may make his day.

My attractive wife and I have a good relationship, and I still like when attractive women smile at me.

Ha yes I am Catholic! But that’s not why I feel this way... he just seems like a good person/husband and I feel guilty fantasizing about him!

Are you objectively hotter than his DW? If so, then smile at him and see how he responds. Chat and see where it goes. Maybe he married his DW when he could only get a 5, and now he’s grown into his looks and with his career in place he could get an 8.

If you’re hotter than his DW, then be that 8 he could never get before. You don’t have to leave your DW. Just because you have a fling doesn’t mean you want to leave, unless this guy is on such an upswing in his career that you’re better off even factoring in the divorce costs.

Wow, this is amazing. This is obviously written by an insecure woman.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I just feel ... guilty and bad about thinking about this guy. Most of the time that I see him, he’s with his wife and they seem to have a good relationship. I just feel like a bad person, maybe because I was once cheated on.

Are you super catholic? This is odd. Innocent fantasies are OK.

+1

Smile at him. You may make his day.

My attractive wife and I have a good relationship, and I still like when attractive women smile at me.

Ha yes I am Catholic! But that’s not why I feel this way... he just seems like a good person/husband and I feel guilty fantasizing about him!

Are you objectively hotter than his DW? If so, then smile at him and see how he responds. Chat and see where it goes. Maybe he married his DW when he could only get a 5, and now he’s grown into his looks and with his career in place he could get an 8.

If you’re hotter than his DW, then be that 8 he could never get before. You don’t have to leave your DW. Just because you have a fling doesn’t mean you want to leave, unless this guy is on such an upswing in his career that you’re better off even factoring in the divorce costs.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I just feel ... guilty and bad about thinking about this guy. Most of the time that I see him, he’s with his wife and they seem to have a good relationship. I just feel like a bad person, maybe because I was once cheated on.

Are you super catholic? This is odd. Innocent fantasies are OK.

+1

Smile at him. You may make his day.

My attractive wife and I have a good relationship, and I still like when attractive women smile at me.

Ha yes I am Catholic! But that’s not why I feel this way... he just seems like a good person/husband and I feel guilty fantasizing about him!

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I just feel ... guilty and bad about thinking about this guy. Most of the time that I see him, he’s with his wife and they seem to have a good relationship. I just feel like a bad person, maybe because I was once cheated on.

Are you super catholic? This is odd. Innocent fantasies are OK.

+1

Smile at him. You may make his day.

My attractive wife and I have a good relationship, and I still like when attractive women smile at me.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I just feel ... guilty and bad about thinking about this guy. Most of the time that I see him, he’s with his wife and they seem to have a good relationship. I just feel like a bad person, maybe because I was once cheated on.

Unless you murder someone, you're not a bad person and should not feel guilty. I absolve thee.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I just feel ... guilty and bad about thinking about this guy. Most of the time that I see him, he’s with his wife and they seem to have a good relationship. I just feel like a bad person, maybe because I was once cheated on.

Are you super catholic? This is odd. Innocent fantasies are OK.

OP here. I just feel ... guilty and bad about thinking about this guy. Most of the time that I see him, he’s with his wife and they seem to have a good relationship. I just feel like a bad person, maybe because I was once cheated on.

LOL OP, is it wrong to be human? What's wrong is the artificial cultural norms civilized societies lock themselves into. That just makes me sad, sad, sad.

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Anonymous wrote:Backdoor neighbor is a yoga instructor, has a pool, and seems partial to small bikinis. So, yeah. I've coveted from time-to-time.

is she single?

Nope. Married with 3 kids.

Anonymous wrote:Backdoor neighbor is a yoga instructor, has a pool, and seems partial to small bikinis. So, yeah. I've coveted from time-to-time.

is she single?

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Anonymous wrote:My doctor spouse gets hit on all the time by patients. It is just gross.

Funny enough, I saw the slightest sparkle of excitement in my OB's eye when he got up to call in the nurse for my exam "down there." He looks gorgeous in scrubs- brings out his eyes.

Did you find yourself grooming for him?

Backdoor neighbor is a yoga instructor, has a pool, and seems partial to small bikinis. So, yeah. I've coveted from time-to-time.