Anonymous
Post 11/26/2017 19:53     Subject: Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

The quality of the sex was less than the hassle of dealing with you, it's pretty simple.
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2017 19:48     Subject: Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

I feel awkward have sex outside of an established relationship. I know others could care less but just not my thing.
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2017 19:25     Subject: Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I'm just surprised by his attitude. I know he had done similar in the past (continued sleeping with exes). Sex was really really good. I mean, come on!


Just because he's done it in the past doesn't mean he's required to do it with you.


Yeah, thanks, I know.
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2017 19:25     Subject: Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I'm just surprised by his attitude. I know he had done similar in the past (continued sleeping with exes). Sex was really really good. I mean, come on!


Just because he's done it in the past doesn't mean he's required to do it with you.
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2017 19:22     Subject: Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

OP here. I'm just surprised by his attitude. I know he had done similar in the past (continued sleeping with exes). Sex was really really good. I mean, come on!
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2017 19:12     Subject: Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

Maybe he likes you and like some of us guys, when it’s done it’s done.
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2017 18:43     Subject: Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

Let me take a guess... his turning down the sex caused your self esteem to take a hit, didn't it? You cheapened yourself by offering to stay connected to him at any cost. He in turn saw it for what it was and decided your sex was not worth the hassle. Double whammy
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2017 18:41     Subject: Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

1. He doesn't Want you
2. He doesn’t believe you can do just FWB
3. He can get more from someone else
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2017 18:24     Subject: Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

Anonymous wrote:OP, do you have any pride or self esteem? Was he the only man that you could get?


Sex is easy to find. Good sex less so. Good sex with someone you know and trust? Even more rare.
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2017 18:22     Subject: Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

Because the relationship is over and he's not some stud for you to mount at will?
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2017 18:22     Subject: Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

who dumped who?
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2017 18:20     Subject: Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

OP, do you have any pride or self esteem? Was he the only man that you could get?
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2017 18:14     Subject: Re:Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

When I was single, I turned down opportunity for just sex after the relationship ended. It wasn't worth the headache, plus I was always skeptical it would stay just sex and she would be ok with me also sleeping and dating others.
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2017 18:05     Subject: Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

he was an idiot
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2017 18:03     Subject: Re:Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

Maybe what you thought was great sex was in fact blah from his POV