my 12 year old general goes to sleep by 10:30 when he has a sleepover....

Have had tons of sleepovers for my sons at this age - they are great, sometimes get too hyper but generally hang out and play video games and watch movies or ride bikes before it gets dark - I second lots of soda and chips. Never had them looking at porn (!) and yes I do know, the house is small, they all hang out and sleep in the living room.

You all are so dramatic. The boys will be fine.

Any girls in the house? If so send them away for the boys safety.