Anonymous
11/13/2017 14:10
Subject: Allegation against Neil DeGrasse Tyson
Pretty soon #I did it, too and #what are you gonna do about it? will be trending on twitter.
The backlash will be the realization and acceptance that most men do/have done this kind of shit and there's nothing anyone can do or say to stop it.
Before long, it will be our husband or father or son accused and women will start to minimize and cover up. Again.
The backlash will be the realization and acceptance that most men do/have done this kind of shit and there's nothing anyone can do or say to stop it.
Before long, it will be our husband or father or son accused and women will start to minimize and cover up. Again.
Anonymous
11/13/2017 14:03
Subject: Allegation against Neil DeGrasse Tyson
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s probably 90% of men.
TBH, as good a guy as he seems, Part of me wants to ask DH if there is anything I should know. He would be so deeply hurt though.
I think you should. But be prepared to be horriffied.
Ugh. Why are men so disgusting?
And then what?
Where do we go from there?
I’m a survivor. He’s been so great with my PTSD. I don’t know how I could reconcile that with an inappropriate touch or worse.
Beware the DCUM cheerleaders.
What good would come out of asking a question like this? If the answer is "yes" now you've opened pandora's box. Are you prepared to deal with this? If the answer is "no," you're going to have to deal with the fallout of a super offensive question.
If you can't trust him enough not to feel the need to ask these kinds of questions, why are you with him?
Dp. I asked my husband even though I've known him since we were teenagers. Of course he said he's never abused women. He didn't get mad because he understands how women might be concerned that all men are gross pigs.
Anonymous
11/13/2017 13:56
Subject: Allegation against Neil DeGrasse Tyson
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s probably 90% of men.
TBH, as good a guy as he seems, Part of me wants to ask DH if there is anything I should know. He would be so deeply hurt though.
I think you should. But be prepared to be horriffied.
Ugh. Why are men so disgusting?
And then what?
Where do we go from there?
I’m a survivor. He’s been so great with my PTSD. I don’t know how I could reconcile that with an inappropriate touch or worse.
Beware the DCUM cheerleaders.
What good would come out of asking a question like this? If the answer is "yes" now you've opened pandora's box. Are you prepared to deal with this? If the answer is "no," you're going to have to deal with the fallout of a super offensive question.
If you can't trust him enough not to feel the need to ask these kinds of questions, why are you with him?
Anonymous
11/13/2017 13:49
Subject: Allegation against Neil DeGrasse Tyson
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s probably 90% of men.
TBH, as good a guy as he seems, Part of me wants to ask DH if there is anything I should know. He would be so deeply hurt though.
I think you should. But be prepared to be horriffied.
Ugh. Why are men so disgusting?
How do they get that way? I look at my innocent little boy, and ugh! I have taught him about consent, and will repeatedly discuss this with him. But is that enough?
I do think if we can hammer it into men, they will get it. I dont know why it seems so difficult though. Why do men do this? Why is this horror so common?
It reminds me of the Germaine Greer quote, "Women have very little idea of how much men hate them."
this made me think of a month ago, a coworker of my sis said that her boss (a man) in frustration said to her the world would be much better off w/out women. i'm happy to say she quit that job.
Anonymous
11/13/2017 11:24
Subject: Allegation against Neil DeGrasse Tyson
Anonymous wrote:It’s probably 90% of men.
TBH, as good a guy as he seems, Part of me wants to ask DH if there is anything I should know. He would be so deeply hurt though.
its something that we've (me and hubby) keep talking about. what stuff he knows about friends, him trying to recollect if he's harassed. thankfully he's never assaulted a woman. he actually cited this very great tweet:
https://twitter.com/wkamaubell/status/928840596676055040
Anonymous
11/13/2017 11:21
Subject: Allegation against Neil DeGrasse Tyson
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He's such an ass on twitter, this isn't all that surprising.
+1 Neil pretty much embodies the idea of mansplaining. Super annoying.
Uh, isn't he scientist-splaining? That's his job, right? I mean it isn't like he responds to women differently than men who ask him questions in his field as far as I can tell.
Anonymous
11/13/2017 11:18
Subject: Allegation against Neil DeGrasse Tyson
Go ahead and tar NDT if you want. It's the right time for it.
Just want to put this out there -- on its face, her story has some issues.
Just want to put this out there -- on its face, her story has some issues.
Anonymous
11/13/2017 11:17
Subject: Allegation against Neil DeGrasse Tyson
Anonymous wrote:He's such an ass on twitter, this isn't all that surprising.
+1 Neil pretty much embodies the idea of mansplaining. Super annoying.
Anonymous
11/13/2017 11:15
Subject: Allegation against Neil DeGrasse Tyson
Whenever I would open Twitter and see a celeb trending, I thought it was because they died.
Now when I see a celeb trending, especially male, I know that it's because he's turned out to be a perv.
2017 has been a hell of a year.
Now when I see a celeb trending, especially male, I know that it's because he's turned out to be a perv.
2017 has been a hell of a year.
Anonymous
11/13/2017 10:54
Subject: Allegation against Neil DeGrasse Tyson
He's such an ass on twitter, this isn't all that surprising.
Anonymous
11/12/2017 17:46
Subject: Allegation against Neil DeGrasse Tyson
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s probably 90% of men.
TBH, as good a guy as he seems, Part of me wants to ask DH if there is anything I should know. He would be so deeply hurt though.
I think you should. But be prepared to be horriffied.
Ugh. Why are men so disgusting?
And then what?
Where do we go from there?
I’m a survivor. He’s been so great with my PTSD. I don’t know how I could reconcile that with an inappropriate touch or worse.
Honestly, I would want to know. I wouldnt want to be with him. I couldnt reconcile staying with an abuser. But he is that way whether he tells your or not, so I would want to know. I'm sorry you are in this position.
Anonymous
11/12/2017 17:46
Subject: Allegation against Neil DeGrasse Tyson
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s probably 90% of men.
TBH, as good a guy as he seems, Part of me wants to ask DH if there is anything I should know. He would be so deeply hurt though.
I think you should. But be prepared to be horriffied.
Ugh. Why are men so disgusting?
As if he or any man would acknowledge or admit doing something abusive.....
Anonymous
11/12/2017 17:42
Subject: Allegation against Neil DeGrasse Tyson
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s probably 90% of men.
TBH, as good a guy as he seems, Part of me wants to ask DH if there is anything I should know. He would be so deeply hurt though.
I think you should. But be prepared to be horriffied.
Ugh. Why are men so disgusting?
And then what?
Where do we go from there?
I’m a survivor. He’s been so great with my PTSD. I don’t know how I could reconcile that with an inappropriate touch or worse.
Anonymous
11/12/2017 17:32
Subject: Allegation against Neil DeGrasse Tyson
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s probably 90% of men.
TBH, as good a guy as he seems, Part of me wants to ask DH if there is anything I should know. He would be so deeply hurt though.
I think you should. But be prepared to be horriffied.
Ugh. Why are men so disgusting?
How do they get that way? I look at my innocent little boy, and ugh! I have taught him about consent, and will repeatedly discuss this with him. But is that enough?
I do think if we can hammer it into men, they will get it. I dont know why it seems so difficult though. Why do men do this? Why is this horror so common?
It reminds me of the Germaine Greer quote, "Women have very little idea of how much men hate them."
Anonymous
11/12/2017 17:29
Subject: Allegation against Neil DeGrasse Tyson
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s probably 90% of men.
TBH, as good a guy as he seems, Part of me wants to ask DH if there is anything I should know. He would be so deeply hurt though.
I think you should. But be prepared to be horriffied.
Ugh. Why are men so disgusting?
How do they get that way? I look at my innocent little boy, and ugh! I have taught him about consent, and will repeatedly discuss this with him. But is that enough?