Anonymous wrote:My friend seen the girl I'm dating out this weekend with another guy. I asked her and she said until we are exclusive, she assumed we are dating other people. She feels she isn't doing anything wrong. In hindsight, I understand her position, but we have been dating for a little over 2 months. I didn't realize I had to had a childish " Will you be my girlfriend" coversation. We have been having sex and she has stayed over at my place for the past 7-8 weeks. Now I'm feel like an idiot. I told her that I want to be exclusive and she said " I will get back to you". WTH? I am mad that I feel like blocking her number and moving on, but I really like her.

This is how it works. Exclusivity is not assumed. Everyone is welcome to pursue other options until one is solid. I'm sorry that you did not realize this and that you feel like an idiot. Based on her response, it does not sound like this is going to turn into a relationship. I would move on if I were you.

Anonymous wrote:My friend seen the girl I'm dating out this weekend with another guy. I asked her and she said until we are exclusive, she assumed we are dating other people. She feels she isn't doing anything wrong. In hindsight, I understand her position, but we have been dating for a little over 2 months. I didn't realize I had to had a childish " Will you be my girlfriend" coversation. We have been having sex and she has stayed over at my place for the past 7-8 weeks. Now I'm feel like an idiot. I told her that I want to be exclusive and she said " I will get back to you". WTH? I am mad that I feel like blocking her number and moving on, but I really like her.

You need to think next steps..

- If she comes back and says "sure, let's be exclusive", life is good from your perspective.
- If she comes back and says "no, not exclusive", what are you going to do? I'd say keep doing what you are doing while you find someone else. Move the sex to her place if you can. Why give up on the free pu**y. Begin using condoms though..

Good luck

She's a slut. Get rid of her.

Girlfriend is very smart! I'm sure you are literally up all night stalking her social media. She's got you right where she wants you.

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Anonymous wrote:Two things:

1. It's "saw." My friend SAW the girl with another guy. Not "seen."

2. Move on. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't want the same thing you want. End it.

Troll

Huh? How am I a troll?

Yes you are a troll and a bully. Your post has thing to do with topic. You are an asshole.

Which part of the post has nothing to do with the topic? And which part indicates PP is a bully?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Two things:

1. It's "saw." My friend SAW the girl with another guy. Not "seen."

2. Move on. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't want the same thing you want. End it.

Troll

Huh? How am I a troll?

Yes you are a troll and a bully. Your post has thing to do with topic. You are an asshole.

Anonymous wrote:She hasn't slept with the other guy yet and wants to see who is better before deciding. Hopefully you win!

She has slept with other guys .....please!

Keep her around for a F buddy until you find someone else or she changes. Wear protection JIC.

She hasn't slept with the other guy yet and wants to see who is better before deciding. Hopefully you win!

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Anonymous wrote:My friend seen the girl I'm dating out this weekend with another guy. I asked her and she said until we are exclusive, she assumed we are dating other people. She feels she isn't doing anything wrong. In hindsight, I understand her position, but we have been dating for a little over 2 months. I didn't realize I had to had a childish " Will you be my girlfriend" coversation. We have been having sex and she has stayed over at my place for the past 7-8 weeks. Now I'm feel like an idiot. I told her that I want to be exclusive and she said " I will get back to you". WTH? I am mad that I feel like blocking her number and moving on, but I really like her.

I'd date other people until you learn where the word "seen" works. Hint, not in the way you used it

Burn!!!! You criticized the grammar of a stranger on the Internet. Hilarious! Not only that! You kicked a guy feeling low when he's down. Maybe he feels even worse about himself. But doesn't he deserve it? Idiot! This loser doesn't even know how to use a word right and he expects this girl to like him??? Thank God you're here to put him in his place! Great way to start the day!!!! I love contributing to sadness in the world. Especially when someone is seeking help and support and guidance. So awesome.

+1

Too many of these types.

+1 Typical mouthbreather behind a keyboard.

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Anonymous wrote:My friend seen the girl I'm dating out this weekend with another guy. I asked her and she said until we are exclusive, she assumed we are dating other people. She feels she isn't doing anything wrong. In hindsight, I understand her position, but we have been dating for a little over 2 months. I didn't realize I had to had a childish " Will you be my girlfriend" coversation. We have been having sex and she has stayed over at my place for the past 7-8 weeks. Now I'm feel like an idiot. I told her that I want to be exclusive and she said " I will get back to you". WTH? I am mad that I feel like blocking her number and moving on, but I really like her.

I'd date other people until you learn where the word "seen" works. Hint, not in the way you used it

Burn!!!! You criticized the grammar of a stranger on the Internet. Hilarious! Not only that! You kicked a guy feeling low when he's down. Maybe he feels even worse about himself. But doesn't he deserve it? Idiot! This loser doesn't even know how to use a word right and he expects this girl to like him??? Thank God you're here to put him in his place! Great way to start the day!!!! I love contributing to sadness in the world. Especially when someone is seeking help and support and guidance. So awesome.

+1

Too many of these types.

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Anonymous wrote:My friend seen the girl I'm dating out this weekend with another guy. I asked her and she said until we are exclusive, she assumed we are dating other people. She feels she isn't doing anything wrong. In hindsight, I understand her position, but we have been dating for a little over 2 months. I didn't realize I had to had a childish " Will you be my girlfriend" coversation. We have been having sex and she has stayed over at my place for the past 7-8 weeks. Now I'm feel like an idiot. I told her that I want to be exclusive and she said " I will get back to you". WTH? I am mad that I feel like blocking her number and moving on, but I really like her.

I'd date other people until you learn where the word "seen" works. Hint, not in the way you used it

Burn!!!! You criticized the grammar of a stranger on the Internet. Hilarious! Not only that! You kicked a guy feeling low when he's down. Maybe he feels even worse about himself. But doesn't he deserve it? Idiot! This loser doesn't even know how to use a word right and he expects this girl to like him??? Thank God you're here to put him in his place! Great way to start the day!!!! I love contributing to sadness in the world. Especially when someone is seeking help and support and guidance. So awesome.

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Anonymous wrote:Redneck romance....

Your response is rude, ignorant, and racist. You're the redneck.

Let me get this straight. You accuse someone of racism for using the term “redneck” and then you turn around and use the term “redneck.” That only makes sense if you identify as racist. Or troll.

Anonymous wrote:My friend seen the girl I'm dating out this weekend with another guy. I asked her and she said until we are exclusive, she assumed we are dating other people. She feels she isn't doing anything wrong. In hindsight, I understand her position, but we have been dating for a little over 2 months. I didn't realize I had to had a childish " Will you be my girlfriend" coversation. We have been having sex and she has stayed over at my place for the past 7-8 weeks. Now I'm feel like an idiot. I told her that I want to be exclusive and she said " I will get back to you". WTH? I am mad that I feel like blocking her number and moving on, but I really like her.

I'd date other people until you learn where the word "seen" works. Hint, not in the way you used it

Yes, you do have to have the exclusive talk. It’s not childish to establish either that she isn’t sleeping with anyone else or dating other people while you guys are together. I had gotten burned in the past with guys that will say “well you never asked me if”, “we hadn’t agreed to” that I assume unless it has been asked and agreed to, don’t assume.

As for the get back to you, that does seems a bit rude especially since you’ve been intimate. What, is she waiting for a better offer? The only possible legit reason I could see her really liking you to date exclusively but saying she will get back to you is if she thinks you are only asking her because you saw her out and it’s not genuine. Apart from that, she knows now what she is feeling - does she not want to commit right now to anyone, does she need to know you better, or does she want to keep it casual?