Kissing is the canary in the coal mine for relationships. When the kissing goes away, the relationship is in decline.

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Anonymous wrote:We French kiss outside of sex maybe once per month.

We touch each other a lot though. We're affectionate.

Just curious, how long of you been together?

Together nearly 14 years.

Maybe it's more than once per month. We kiss each other on the lips all the time. But, passionate, tongue, 5+ seconds kisses? Yeah, not often.

I love kissing my boyfriend, though he uses a little too much tongue. I did not like kissing my ex-husband - was not a good fit (which perhaps should have told me something). IME women are better kissers - slower, just the right amount of tongue, and more sensual.

-bi woman

Anonymous wrote:I only have one first kiss that I remember.

I opened my door for him and he strode in, grabbed me around the waist and pulled me close and kissed me passionately. It took my breath away and he stole my heart.

That is exactly how our first kiss went.

Anonymous wrote:Kissing is very important to me. Non-compatible kissing is a deal breaker in a relationship. We kiss a lot.

Same here. We melt into each other on our first kiss and still love it.

Anonymous wrote:We French kiss outside of sex maybe once per month.

We touch each other a lot though. We're affectionate.

Just curious, how long of you been together?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's kind of weird but I recently realized that DH and I don't "make out" anymore and I don't recall when we stopped. We kiss on the lips but no frenching or anything like that.

Same, actually

Yep. We have been married for 17 years. We kiss during sex we don’t sit on the couch and just make out like we used to do. Those days ended years ago. Every once in a while my husband walks up and gives me a good kiss. I love it when that happens.

I only have one first kiss that I remember.

I opened my door for him and he strode in, grabbed me around the waist and pulled me close and kissed me passionately. It took my breath away and he stole my heart.

My DH is great in bed but a terrible kisser. He is terrible at kissing only during sex. He is just too aggressive and it is very off-putting. However, he gives great pecks on the cheek when we are not having sex and I love that.


I have had one wonderful kisser in my life and all kisses were wonderful. That guy was otherwise a terrible person for me to have a relationship with, so that ended.

We French kiss outside of sex maybe once per month.

We touch each other a lot though. We're affectionate.

I don’t particularly like it. This thread makes me feel better!

I miss the first awkward kiss and the aftermath.

Love it! We kiss all the time. I love him, am attracted to him, care deeply about him, and think he's a great kisser...so why not?

I don’t like how a lot of people kiss. DH is too aggressive when he kisses. When he slows down it’s amazing but I have to constantly pull back to slow him down, or skip the kissing and get on with sex.

The best kissing I ever had was a first kiss, and all the kisses that came the next 4 days. I could be happy just kissing him. Turns out he was equally good at everything else, but I’ll never forget how his kisses felt. His first kiss felt like he’d known me forever. I’ve never had anything like it before or since.

I’ve made out with random women - used to do it all the time because I love kissing. Walking down the street on a busy Friday night as the bars are being let out and simply ask girls “wanna make out?” more often than not, they say yes. It does help that I am attractive and a good kisser.