Anonymous
Post 10/14/2017 11:15     Subject: "What is the plan?"

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do you have a habit of nitpicking, criticizing, or telling him how you want him to do things differently? A lot of moms fall into this habit and then the husband is afraid he’s just going to do it wrong or you’ll tell him to do it a different way, so what’s the point of him doing it in the first place?


Interesting that you say "moms" and then "husband." Telling and significant shift in your perception/articulation of roles.


Oh, shut up with that BS.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2017 11:12     Subject: "What is the plan?"

Anonymous wrote:Do you have a habit of nitpicking, criticizing, or telling him how you want him to do things differently? A lot of moms fall into this habit and then the husband is afraid he’s just going to do it wrong or you’ll tell him to do it a different way, so what’s the point of him doing it in the first place?


Interesting that you say "moms" and then "husband." Telling and significant shift in your perception/articulation of roles.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2017 11:05     Subject: "What is the plan?"

Do you have a habit of nitpicking, criticizing, or telling him how you want him to do things differently? A lot of moms fall into this habit and then the husband is afraid he’s just going to do it wrong or you’ll tell him to do it a different way, so what’s the point of him doing it in the first place?