Anonymous
10/05/2017 21:28
Subject: Is this level of physical touching normal behavior or more?
Everyone who ever gave me a shoulder massage was trying to get in my pants.
That being said....let it go. Don't get involved with someone from work.
_Bi woman too
That being said....let it go. Don't get involved with someone from work.
_Bi woman too
Anonymous
10/05/2017 21:24
Subject: Is this level of physical touching normal behavior or more?
Op here. That's what I think also. It's tricky territory because I never know what others intentions are. I just may end up look foolish if I think someone's interested and she's just being friendly
Anonymous
10/05/2017 21:05
Subject: Is this level of physical touching normal behavior or more?
Anonymous wrote:NP, straight woman here. I personally am not a particularly touchy feely person, especially at work. I don't like shoulder massages from anybody, male or female, but definitely not at work.
I have had some colleagues who are more huggy than I am. Always women. And they hug me when they see me after a considerable time has passed and we haven't seen each other. I've been known to hug people if they are having particularly rough times (death of a pet, family member, similar).
The shoulder rub -- yuck.
I am the second paragraph. Ethnically come from a much more physical culture. Hug male and female colleagues if I think they are receptive. But I would never massage someone other than a close, close friend.