Anonymous wrote:OP here--we've been together for 6 years. We own a home together. We're just not married. We have one child together. He was in a very public place outside of a store. The thing that hurts the most is he acknowledged how bad it looked but didn't feel any sense of urgency to come home and explain himself. if our relationship wasn't already hanging on by a thread I might let this go but now I'm just done. I feel bad for our daughter the most.
Anonymous wrote:OP here--we've been together for 6 years. We own a home together. We're just not married. We have one child together. He was in a very public place outside of a store. The thing that hurts the most is he acknowledged how bad it looked but didn't feel any sense of urgency to come home and explain himself. if our relationship wasn't already hanging on by a thread I might let this go but now I'm just done. I feel bad for our daughter the most.
Anonymous wrote:Regardless of what happened with his co-worker, by staying for that drink he was sending you a message that he doesn't take you seriously or care how you feel. He may have even been trying to provoke you into breaking up with him so he doesn't have to do the dirty work.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Frankly, I'm sick of people on this forum saying "partner". A boyfriend relationship just doesn't have the same level of commitment as a HUSBAND so, yeah. Still if it were me, I'd break up with him for sure.
we've been together a decade, own a home together, joint money, beneficiary to each other's wills, medical POA, raising children together. Believe me there is far more commitment here than there was in either of our marriages