Anonymous
Post 09/15/2017 12:19     Subject: Required to submit photo of HOCO dress before purchasing tixkefs
Not just prom/homecoming. I was stunned by what 12 and 13 year old girls were wearing to Bar/Bat Mitzvah parties.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2017 11:58     Subject: Re:Required to submit photo of HOCO dress before purchasing tixkefs
Anonymous wrote:I would say it is way overstepping by the high school, BUT I saw a lot of appalling prom dresses on my FB feed last Spring. I am not usually a prude but oh my gosh some of these dresses were so tight and so skimpy!


So don't wear them...?
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2017 11:53     Subject: Re:Required to submit photo of HOCO dress before purchasing tixkefs
Anonymous wrote:I would say it is way overstepping by the high school, BUT I saw a lot of appalling prom dresses on my FB feed last Spring. I am not usually a prude but oh my gosh some of these dresses were so tight and so skimpy!


AND!!!!!????????????????
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2017 11:53     Subject: Re:Required to submit photo of HOCO dress before purchasing tixkefs
Anonymous wrote:Is this a HoCo public school? Is this really legal for public schools in MD? I can see this being something a parochial school might do though.


No, she said her hometown, probably not around here. HOCO was supposed to be homecoming.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2017 11:53     Subject: Required to submit photo of HOCO dress before purchasing tixkefs
I don't see the problem with it.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2017 11:52     Subject: Required to submit photo of HOCO dress before purchasing tixkefs
What hometown is this? So we can embarrass the shit out of the school on social media, I mean.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2017 11:52     Subject: Re:Required to submit photo of HOCO dress before purchasing tixkefs
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Is this a HoCo public school? Is this really legal for public schools in MD? I can see this being something a parochial school might do though.

Sorry, hoco is an abbreviation for HoCo. It's a public school, but not in Maryland.

Hoco is an abbreviation for homecoming**
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2017 11:52     Subject: Re:Required to submit photo of HOCO dress before purchasing tixkefs
Anonymous wrote:Is this a HoCo public school? Is this really legal for public schools in MD? I can see this being something a parochial school might do though.

Sorry, hoco is an abbreviation for HoCo. It's a public school, but not in Maryland.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2017 11:51     Subject: Re:Required to submit photo of HOCO dress before purchasing tixkefs
I would say it is way overstepping by the high school, BUT I saw a lot of appalling prom dresses on my FB feed last Spring. I am not usually a prude but oh my gosh some of these dresses were so tight and so skimpy!
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2017 11:50     Subject: Required to submit photo of HOCO dress before purchasing tixkefs
My daughter would wear a tux. Fuck that.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2017 11:46     Subject: Re:Required to submit photo of HOCO dress before purchasing tixkefs
Anonymous wrote:I just wish society (schools included) would once and for all stop policing what GIRLS WEAR and concentrate on what the actual problem is.

Signed,

A mother of a boy who will teach him that no matter what the girl wears he is not to me a creep


+ 1
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2017 11:36     Subject: Re:Required to submit photo of HOCO dress before purchasing tixkefs
Is this a HoCo public school? Is this really legal for public schools in MD? I can see this being something a parochial school might do though.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2017 11:33     Subject: Required to submit photo of HOCO dress before purchasing tixkefs
Anonymous wrote:It's sad the school feels it needs to implement such a policy-- it was probably not just one kid's 'stupid action' but many... I agree that this should be the job of parents, but clearly the district thinks parents have abrogated their responsibility.


The solution to that problem is to require all students who come to the dance to bring a form signed by a parent or guardian -- yes, I allow my child to wear these clothes to the homecoming dance.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2017 11:29     Subject: Required to submit photo of HOCO dress before purchasing tixkefs
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am guessing that in your hometown someone showed up inone of those skanky trashy homecoming dresses that look like a stripper picked it out.

As I tell my kids, stupid school rules are usually the result of A) someone's really stupid action B) Someone getting hurt C) A pita complaining or D) a combination of the three.


Stupid school rules are the result of school administrators making stupid rules. School administrators were not forced to make this rule. A skimpy dress is a skimpy dress, not a gun to the head.


Yup. You could just publish a list of rules, and tell anyone that if their clothing violates the rules they won't be allowed in. Preclearing everyone's dress is stupid and unnecessary.

Anonymous
Post 09/15/2017 11:27     Subject: Required to submit photo of HOCO dress before purchasing tixkefs
It's sad the school feels it needs to implement such a policy-- it was probably not just one kid's 'stupid action' but many... I agree that this should be the job of parents, but clearly the district thinks parents have abrogated their responsibility.