When I was younger, the thought intrigued me. Would have loved to see my wife tipping a dancer on stage. Those days are long gone.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:First, I have no interest in going to a strip club. If I want to see a naked woman and "achieve a degree of sexual satisfaction" I can do that at home though not every night.
Second, if I suggested it to her she would look at me and ask "WTF? Am I not enough for you?"

Woman here. I'm more than happy to give my DH a lap dance though technically its referred to as a cowgirl or reverse cowgirl. I do think it would be interesting to go to a strip club and watch the customers and not the girls. Who are these people, why are they there, don't they have anything better to do? Yuck!

Oh please, stop clutching your pearls. You really wonder why men want to look at naked women? Oh gosh, what might be the appeal?

This is going to shock you, but here goes: the men who would want to look at naked, young women, other than their wives, include your pastor, your kid's teacher, the local cop, your dad and your son and your husband. Basically, all men.

Uh, no. Not all men want to look at naked women. Certainly some, maybe most but I'd bet it's more like 1/2.

Now the problem for me is not the naked women (which I guess I might be OK with?), it is the value of going to a strip club. I'm not cool on spending $20 cover charge, paying top $ for shitty cocktails and being pestered by 20 years skanks who want to want to grind on me for $20 for a 3-minute song. If that is not enough there is always the 40-year-old willy veteran who looks strung out on something. Deep down you know that these women are not only not turned on by you but actively despise you. An added bonus is if you get turned on, nothing is going to happen.

So no not all men want o get to a strip club.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:First, I have no interest in going to a strip club. If I want to see a naked woman and "achieve a degree of sexual satisfaction" I can do that at home though not every night.
Second, if I suggested it to her she would look at me and ask "WTF? Am I not enough for you?"

Woman here. I'm more than happy to give my DH a lap dance though technically its referred to as a cowgirl or reverse cowgirl. I do think it would be interesting to go to a strip club and watch the customers and not the girls. Who are these people, why are they there, don't they have anything better to do? Yuck!

Oh please, stop clutching your pearls. You really wonder why men want to look at naked women? Oh gosh, what might be the appeal?

This is going to shock you, but here goes: the men who would want to look at naked, young women, other than their wives, include your pastor, your kid's teacher, the local cop, your dad and your son and your husband. Basically, all men.

lol I know it's hard to grasp but there are many that rather spend their time pursuing other things.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:First, I have no interest in going to a strip club. If I want to see a naked woman and "achieve a degree of sexual satisfaction" I can do that at home though not every night.
Second, if I suggested it to her she would look at me and ask "WTF? Am I not enough for you?"

Woman here. I'm more than happy to give my DH a lap dance though technically its referred to as a cowgirl or reverse cowgirl. I do think it would be interesting to go to a strip club and watch the customers and not the girls. Who are these people, why are they there, don't they have anything better to do? Yuck!

Oh please, stop clutching your pearls. You really wonder why men want to look at naked women? Oh gosh, what might be the appeal?

This is going to shock you, but here goes: the men who would want to look at naked, young women, other than their wives, include your pastor, your kid's teacher, the local cop, your dad and your son and your husband. Basically, all men.

Anonymous wrote:Strip Club? If I want to give money to a woman I can't have sex with then I can just stay home. That's want living with my wife is, minus the lap dance.

I imagine that your wife is a lot more expensive than the strippers.

Anonymous wrote:Strip Club? If I want to give money to a woman I can't have sex with then I can just stay home. That's want living with my wife is, minus the lap dance.

Haha! For someone who must be extremely horny you have a great sense of humor.

Anonymous wrote:First, I have no interest in going to a strip club. If I want to see a naked woman and "achieve a degree of sexual satisfaction" I can do that at home though not every night.
Second, if I suggested it to her she would look at me and ask "WTF? Am I not enough for you?"

Woman here. I'm more than happy to give my DH a lap dance though technically its referred to as a cowgirl or reverse cowgirl. I do think it would be interesting to go to a strip club and watch the customers and not the girls. Who are these people, why are they there, don't they have anything better to do? Yuck!

Strip Club? If I want to give money to a woman I can't have sex with then I can just stay home. That's want living with my wife is, minus the lap dance.

Anonymous wrote:No because she's bisexual and has warned me against placing her in such environments (also gay bars, etc.).

If I were married to your DW, I would be there constantly. You don't want her sleeping with other women?!?!

I have been with DW when she was dating. She was like a PP who was more research than turned on.

She doesn't care that I go, which I do a couple times a year for guys nights, etc.

I would have no problem going to a strip club with my wife but I don't really care for them TBH.

lol Strip clubs are for the low mentality types.

Anonymous wrote:No because she's bisexual and has warned me against placing her in such environments (also gay bars, etc.).

I'm Bi and I have gone with my DH. I can be trusted to control myself.

Would never consider it. What could be fun about us exploiting someone us together? A consensual threesome is something else entirely.

I'd been a few times with my ex. The clubs really got her worked up.

Haven't been to a club in a long time and wouldn't care to go unless my wife suggested it.