Anonymous
08/24/2017 13:02
Subject: Found out wife was having an affair
Yeah tell me about it. The question is do I even confront her, or just go to a lawyer and get papers written up, and serve them to her.
Anonymous
08/24/2017 13:02
Subject: Found out wife was having an affair
The baby makes this very tricky. Assuming you are/were excited about the baby, I'm so sorry OP. You need to tell her that you know about the affair and ask her to leave. Insist that a paternity test be conducted in utero and tell her that until you know that the baby is yours you don't want to speak with her.
Anonymous
08/24/2017 13:01
Subject: Re:Found out wife was having an affair
get out before the kid is born in case it is not yours. You do not want to be stuck paying child support for someon else child. What if its the AP and she marries him and you are paying child support for their child!
Anonymous
08/24/2017 13:01
Subject: Re:Found out wife was having an affair
Ya know the sad thing? I always thought I had a good marriage. I always thought these stories happen, but it would never happen to me. Oh how wrong I was.
Anonymous
08/24/2017 12:58
Subject: Found out wife was having an affair
This is why people on Maury would jump up and down when the test told them they weren't the father. It must be so freeing to narrowly avoid a lifelong attachment to someone despicable.
Hugs, OP. This really really sucks.
Hugs, OP. This really really sucks.
Anonymous
08/24/2017 12:58
Subject: Found out wife was having an affair
Yeah, but to what end?Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:More than that to do what? File for divorce? Uh, anyone can file for divorce for whatever reason.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yeah I have written proof.
not a lawyer but i think you need more than that, right?
to prove she is having an affair.
Anonymous
08/24/2017 12:58
Subject: Re:Found out wife was having an affair
Met him once or twice.
Anonymous
08/24/2017 12:58
Subject: Re:Found out wife was having an affair
Just texts?
Anonymous
08/24/2017 12:57
Subject: Found out wife was having an affair
Anonymous wrote:More than that to do what? File for divorce? Uh, anyone can file for divorce for whatever reason.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yeah I have written proof.
not a lawyer but i think you need more than that, right?
to prove she is having an affair.
Anonymous
08/24/2017 12:57
Subject: Found out wife was having an affair
do you know the other guy?
Anonymous
08/24/2017 12:56
Subject: Re:Found out wife was having an affair
Anonymous wrote:Are you in MD? The law states that if a child is brought into the marriage it is your financial responsibility even if it is not yours. So if you are not separated by the time the baby is born and it is NOT yours she can sue YOU for child support.
Kick her out of the house immediately and file for separation.
You might reconcile but you need to protect your interests.
That's so messed up.
Anonymous
08/24/2017 12:56
Subject: Re:Found out wife was having an affair
Anonymous wrote:Are you in MD? The law states that if a child is brought into the marriage it is your financial responsibility even if it is not yours. So if you are not separated by the time the baby is born and it is NOT yours she can sue YOU for child support.
Kick her out of the house immediately and file for separation.
You might reconcile but you need to protect your interests.
Not in MD.
Anonymous
08/24/2017 12:54
Subject: Found out wife was having an affair
She left evidence on a tablet.
Anonymous
08/24/2017 12:54
Subject: Found out wife was having an affair
More than that to do what? File for divorce? Uh, anyone can file for divorce for whatever reason.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yeah I have written proof.
not a lawyer but i think you need more than that, right?
Anonymous
08/24/2017 12:54
Subject: Re:Found out wife was having an affair
Are you in MD? The law states that if a child is brought into the marriage it is your financial responsibility even if it is not yours. So if you are not separated by the time the baby is born and it is NOT yours she can sue YOU for child support.
Kick her out of the house immediately and file for separation.
You might reconcile but you need to protect your interests.
Kick her out of the house immediately and file for separation.
You might reconcile but you need to protect your interests.