Anonymous wrote:Absolutely. Wife was an 8 when we met. 10 years later she's a 14-16 (recent dress purchase brought her sizing issues to light).
I am still attracted to her and we have a good sex life (average 3 times a week).
That being said, I do wish she would lose the weight
1. Her self confidence isn't great and that does play into a lot of aspects of our life, not iust the sex
2. I miss some of the old positions we used to do that she's no longer comfortable with
3. As much as I am still attracted to her, I did like her smaller size better.
But I've also put on weight so I'm in no place to judge.
I think this would pretty much be my husband's answer, though I was a size 6 when we met. I was a size 8 when we got engaged, and back to a 6 for the wedding. I was between an 8 and a 10 before first kid but gained a lot with both pregnancies and can not get it off. Kids are well past babyhood.