lol...I wish it was as easy for men (during my earlier years). Fortunately I'm a happily married man with a satisfying sex life.

lol...I wish it was as easy for men (during my earlier single years) haha...Fortunately I'm a happily married man with a satisfying sex life.

Anonymous wrote:Another reason for toys instead, other than the obvious cleanliness, is there is no disappointment or faking. It's hard and large and ready to please. Worst thing to make all that effort for a teeny weeny and hot garbage breath. ?

OP here. I have a history with toys. I'm really looking to have sex though, which is what makes this undertaking kind of overwhelming.

Another reason for toys instead, other than the obvious cleanliness, is there is no disappointment or faking. It's hard and large and ready to please. Worst thing to make all that effort for a teeny weeny and hot garbage breath. ?

Get some toys and love yourself as no one could. Easy peasy.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm very recently separated - a month and a half - and reeling, vulnerable. I have had sex ONCE in the last year, and it was in January. (Part of why I left is due to my husband's cheating, which I found out about last June). Anyway, I am in no position to start dating, but really want to have sex. Should I?

Do you have someone in mind for this or are you looking for a man on dcum?

OP here. No one in mind specifically, though I've been talking with some blasts from the past. I'm really just looking to screw a strange man - lol.

Hi. I'm Mike.

Pleased to meet you, with meat to please you.

Good luck in your adventures and take it a little slow to weed out the wierdo(s)

Anonymous wrote:Yes!!! Go get some girl. Just use condoms and birth control.

Are oral sex and deep kissing safe with a stranger, though?

Roar wrote:Recommend a trip away with girl friends. Vegas and Nashville are incredibly popular for a reason as is the slogan, "what happens in vegas..."

You'll be way more at ease and the fear of attachment or being seen isn't there.

Most of all, be vocal in bed of what you want. Tell the partner what works and be a bit demanding. They'll please you and you won't mind the wet spot.

Good luck OP!

+1

A turned on woman who is telling me how to use my body for her pleasure? Yup. Into it.

Recommend a trip away with girl friends. Vegas and Nashville are incredibly popular for a reason as is the slogan, "what happens in vegas..."

You'll be way more at ease and the fear of attachment or being seen isn't there.

Most of all, be vocal in bed of what you want. Tell the partner what works and be a bit demanding. They'll please you and you won't mind the wet spot.

Good luck OP!

15 lbs is not a big deal at all

go out with some good wingwomen and get some

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Anonymous wrote:I'm very recently separated - a month and a half - and reeling, vulnerable. I have had sex ONCE in the last year, and it was in January. (Part of why I left is due to my husband's cheating, which I found out about last June). Anyway, I am in no position to start dating, but really want to have sex. Should I?

Do you have someone in mind for this or are you looking for a man on dcum?

OP here. No one in mind specifically, though I've been talking with some blasts from the past. I'm really just looking to screw a strange man - lol.

Maybe hire an escort?

No way. If OP is halfway decent, she can get laid for free. There's a whole sea of men wishing they could run into someone like OP on a Thursday night.

OP here. I'm attractive, but about 15 pounds overweight. Beautiful face but insecure due to years of cheating/emotional abuse.

Girl get your groove back! But be safe of course. Do you have any single male friends?

Don't sleep with your friends. Don't shit where you eat isn't just for work. It's also for your social circle.

That said, the rest of PP's post is right. And 15 lbs isn't going to stop a man who's interested. Fake the confidence.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm very recently separated - a month and a half - and reeling, vulnerable. I have had sex ONCE in the last year, and it was in January. (Part of why I left is due to my husband's cheating, which I found out about last June). Anyway, I am in no position to start dating, but really want to have sex. Should I?

Do you have someone in mind for this or are you looking for a man on dcum?

OP here. No one in mind specifically, though I've been talking with some blasts from the past. I'm really just looking to screw a strange man - lol.

Maybe hire an escort?

No way. If OP is halfway decent, she can get laid for free. There's a whole sea of men wishing they could run into someone like OP on a Thursday night.

OP here. I'm attractive, but about 15 pounds overweight. Beautiful face but insecure due to years of cheating/emotional abuse.

Girl get your groove back! But be safe of course. Do you have any single male friends?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm very recently separated - a month and a half - and reeling, vulnerable. I have had sex ONCE in the last year, and it was in January. (Part of why I left is due to my husband's cheating, which I found out about last June). Anyway, I am in no position to start dating, but really want to have sex. Should I?

Do you have someone in mind for this or are you looking for a man on dcum?

OP here. No one in mind specifically, though I've been talking with some blasts from the past. I'm really just looking to screw a strange man - lol.

Maybe hire an escort?

No way. If OP is halfway decent, she can get laid for free. There's a whole sea of men wishing they could run into someone like OP on a Thursday night.

OP here. I'm attractive, but about 15 pounds overweight. Beautiful face but insecure due to years of cheating/emotional abuse.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm very recently separated - a month and a half - and reeling, vulnerable. I have had sex ONCE in the last year, and it was in January. (Part of why I left is due to my husband's cheating, which I found out about last June). Anyway, I am in no position to start dating, but really want to have sex. Should I?

Do you have someone in mind for this or are you looking for a man on dcum?

OP here. No one in mind specifically, though I've been talking with some blasts from the past. I'm really just looking to screw a strange man - lol.

Maybe hire an escort?

No way. If OP is halfway decent, she can get laid for free. There's a whole sea of men wishing they could run into someone like OP on a Thursday night.

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Anonymous wrote:You can do whatever you want. Just be ready to accept the consequences of it, which are broad and deep.

Examples?

The ex finding out and using it against you in proceedings

The new fwb actually using you emotionally or financially (trust me they smell this from a mile away)

Oh FFS. Sometimes a screw is just screw. OP do it! I'm in the same boat and it is soooooo liberating.

OP describes herself as "reeling, vulnerable." Not a great condition to be in if the goal is no-emotion, no-strings, anonymous sex.