OP here: Thanks all! My mom is 73. Was diagnosed with a lot of stuff by a lot of doctors. Normal pressure hydrocephalus (she has a shunt now), FTD, Parkinsons. We will work with Sunrise. I called Adult services (or whatever it is called) and they told me that it was my responsibility, as her guardian, to have a plan and reduce mom's stress and anxiety associated with Aunt B as much as I could. They told me there was nothing that I could do legally to keep Connie away. I could block Aunt B's calls, but Aunt B has "free will."

I am sorry to hear that. I would try elsewhere. Look for MRI and pet scan results to confirm. Too often diagnosis is in behavior alone. Coconut oil helps for dementia though--search Dr Mary Newport--arrests symptoms temporarily

Anonymous wrote:Frontal temporal dementia goes very very quickly and first thing to go is emotions. Very flat expressions. Would not care about aunt B or anyone buying things-not in their disease state. Make sure she has correct diagnosis. Johns Hopkins has a great diagnostic facility.

They were very unhelpful when we went with my MIL with dementia.

Get a restraining order to keep aunt b away from your mom. Tell the front desk people at sunrise that she is not allowed on premises under any circumstance.