Anonymous wrote:OP here:
Thanks for responding everyone. Your words have helped a lot. My husband and I had blood work for genetic testing and a few other things done today. God forbid I lose this pregnancy, we'll hopefully have some insight into why this may be happening.
In 2016, I had an 8 week miscarriage and a chemical pregnancy. This year, I had a chemical pregnancy in January, followed by a miscarriage/chemical in April. I was 6 weeks when I began miscarrying my loss in April, but nothing was ever seen on an ultrasound a few days prior. Some call it a miscarriage and others a chemical.
I'm 31-years-old and have been trying to have a successful pregnancy for almost two years. I'm currently being seen at a fertility center. I've been told that it's not that I have difficulty getting pregnant, but I have difficulty staying pregnant.
I've pretty much lost all of the pregnancy symptoms I was having just a few days ago. Breast tenderness, etc. That scares me.
So sorry for your losses. I am a lot older than you but am the same - get pregnant easily but then miscarry. Key is to find it what is causing your MCs. Mine were chromosomal problems with the fetus, but I'm a lot older than you. If you MC again I would request a recurrent pregnancy loss panel from your RE and karotype testing for both you and your spouse/partner, as well as a D&C If you have a missed miscarriage so they can test the fetal tissue. For me it was a matter of just continuing to try until I had luck. I'm in my 40s and 22 weeks pregnant, no fertillity or other treatments.