Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am with you, OP. Women are almost made to downplay or feel ashamed of their beauty. Personally I appreciate physical beauty and consider it a gift to humanity - who doesn't like a gorgeous face!?
This is total BS. Women use their beauty if they have it to get ahead/get what they want.
Gift to humanity? It won't cure cancer.
Anonymous wrote:I am with you, OP. Women are almost made to downplay or feel ashamed of their beauty. Personally I appreciate physical beauty and consider it a gift to humanity - who doesn't like a gorgeous face!?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just ask your prom queen and see how she's doing.
OP here. This comment perfectly illustrates my point. Why the vicious undertone?
Why do women who claim to be bright take pleasure in putting down other women just for their good looks? Why do they feel superior about an IQ that was a genetic accident? Their intelligence was no more earned than the prom queen's large bust.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The thread about whether beauty contributes to lifetime success led me to wonder why some women with above-average intelligence believe they are superior to a naturally beautiful woman.
Just as beauty is a gift of nature, so it intelligence. So why do some women claim moral virtue if they've been particularly blessed in the brains department? And why do they seem to gleefully disparage beauty?
I don't know that I'd agree with that. I'm probably considered beautiful and intelligent. The natural intelligence has been used in concert with a lot of hard work and studying. It's been nurtured more. It feels like something I have more control over.
The beauty just requires sunscreen and waxing to keep up. I don't feel as invested in it.
The beauty will fade, but the intelligence will serve you forever.
The argument that intelligence holds up through life doesn't hold water. Cognition slows as we age.
So does beauty.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The thread about whether beauty contributes to lifetime success led me to wonder why some women with above-average intelligence believe they are superior to a naturally beautiful woman.
Just as beauty is a gift of nature, so it intelligence. So why do some women claim moral virtue if they've been particularly blessed in the brains department? And why do they seem to gleefully disparage beauty?
I don't know that I'd agree with that. I'm probably considered beautiful and intelligent. The natural intelligence has been used in concert with a lot of hard work and studying. It's been nurtured more. It feels like something I have more control over.
The beauty just requires sunscreen and waxing to keep up. I don't feel as invested in it.
The beauty will fade, but the intelligence will serve you forever.
The argument that intelligence holds up through life doesn't hold water. Cognition slows as we age.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The thread about whether beauty contributes to lifetime success led me to wonder why some women with above-average intelligence believe they are superior to a naturally beautiful woman.
Just as beauty is a gift of nature, so it intelligence. So why do some women claim moral virtue if they've been particularly blessed in the brains department? And why do they seem to gleefully disparage beauty?
I don't know that I'd agree with that. I'm probably considered beautiful and intelligent. The natural intelligence has been used in concert with a lot of hard work and studying. It's been nurtured more. It feels like something I have more control over.
The beauty just requires sunscreen and waxing to keep up. I don't feel as invested in it.
The beauty will fade, but the intelligence will serve you forever.
The argument that intelligence holds up through life doesn't hold water. Cognition slows as we age.
So does beauty.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just ask your prom queen and see how she's doing.
OP here. This comment perfectly illustrates my point. Why the vicious undertone?
Why do women who claim to be bright take pleasure in putting down other women just for their good looks? Why do they feel superior about an IQ that was a genetic accident? Their intelligence was no more earned than the prom queen's large bust.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The two are not mutually exclusive, you know.
Did anyone say they were?
Anonymous wrote:Are you serious? You must be the latter.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The thread about whether beauty contributes to lifetime success led me to wonder why some women with above-average intelligence believe they are superior to a naturally beautiful woman.
Just as beauty is a gift of nature, so it intelligence. So why do some women claim moral virtue if they've been particularly blessed in the brains department? And why do they seem to gleefully disparage beauty?
I don't know that I'd agree with that. I'm probably considered beautiful and intelligent. The natural intelligence has been used in concert with a lot of hard work and studying. It's been nurtured more. It feels like something I have more control over.
The beauty just requires sunscreen and waxing to keep up. I don't feel as invested in it.
The beauty will fade, but the intelligence will serve you forever.
Intelligence fades too.
Anonymous wrote:The two are not mutually exclusive, you know.