Anonymous
Post 07/15/2017 17:10     Subject: Your ex-husbands girlfriend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ugh. Thanks for starting this thread, because this is exactly what I was thinking.

Ugh, his first girlfriend while we were married (happened years ago) looked like me, but an uglier version. I am taller, prettier, and more accomplished.

His second girlfriend now that we're separated is mousy and ugly. She doesn't have a degree and is always about to get fired from her job. And she is a nasty hoarder. She got this awful bob haircut a few months ago, and I couldn't help but make a snide comment at the grocery store when I ran into her. I said, "Oh my goodness, who did that to your hair? It looks AWFUL! I am so sorry." She was my friend, so that bitch deserved it.

Yes, yes. Haters have at it. I know folks are going to be judgemental about my bitchiness. But I am usually a very sweet, kind, giving, empathetic person who volunteers and donates to charity, etc.


Looks aren't everything ladies. Personality matters to men too, how you make him feel, judging by your post I don't think you are as nice and as empathetic as you believe yourself to be.


+10000 (NP here)

In fact, lots of bitchiness in this thread. Wow, you people really hate yourselves. I'm sorry for you guys.
Anonymous
Post 07/14/2017 17:15     Subject: Your ex-husbands girlfriend
A guy once told me...."You know ALL MEN really will find any girl with a great body hot.
As long as her face is okay, not too horsey but her body is good then we consider her a hottie."

I bet he is right.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2017 20:22     Subject: Your ex-husbands girlfriend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She's heavier and uglier but more accomplished. My dh cheated on me for her. Her family has lots of money . Men can be gold diggers too.


Of course, look at that lame golddigger guy that married Luanne from RHONY.


I'm not denying men are gold diggers, but I think that guy has way more money than Luanne. He has a penthouse and (as we heard ad nauseam) a place in PALM BEACH. I think it's more likely Tom liked her personality, and REALLY liked the fact that she was similar to him and would turn a blind eye to all his affairs because she's the same type. I also think because he's a shorty he gets turned on by "physically dominating" a tall woman like her, like in the last episode where he grossly put his hand on her throat for a kiss.

They are a mess. But gold digger is not the right label, IMO.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2017 19:56     Subject: Your ex-husbands girlfriend
Anonymous wrote:She's heavier and uglier but more accomplished. My dh cheated on me for her. Her family has lots of money . Men can be gold diggers too.


Of course, look at that lame golddigger guy that married Luanne from RHONY.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2017 19:55     Subject: Your ex-husbands girlfriend
I liked my ex's girlfriend. She was a great mom to her kid, smart, and my kid liked her. She also had a great, very supportive family. She provided an element of stability to the unstable life of my ex. But then she finally saw the light for what a deadbeat my ex is, and she dumped him.

I think I may have been more heartbroken about her leaving than my ex was! He moved on quickly and found another sucker to date. I still feel like his ex is the one that got away, and I want her back with him, because he truly was a better dad and easier to get along with when he was with her.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2017 17:49     Subject: Your ex-husbands girlfriend
Anonymous wrote:You are no longer with him so who he sleeps with doesn't matter.
You ladies need to stop defining your worth by the men who are attracted to you.


This.

All you women who bitch about men all the time need to look in the mirror.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2017 17:38     Subject: Your ex-husbands girlfriend
She's heavier and uglier but more accomplished. My dh cheated on me for her. Her family has lots of money . Men can be gold diggers too.
taketothebank
Post 07/13/2017 17:19     Subject: Re:Your ex-husbands girlfriend
She's pretty and successful, but morally bankrupt.


Hi. Where is she now? Just asking, you know, for a friend.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2017 17:14     Subject: Your ex-husbands girlfriend
Anonymous wrote:Ugh. Thanks for starting this thread, because this is exactly what I was thinking.

Ugh, his first girlfriend while we were married (happened years ago) looked like me, but an uglier version. I am taller, prettier, and more accomplished.

His second girlfriend now that we're separated is mousy and ugly. She doesn't have a degree and is always about to get fired from her job. And she is a nasty hoarder. She got this awful bob haircut a few months ago, and I couldn't help but make a snide comment at the grocery store when I ran into her. I said, "Oh my goodness, who did that to your hair? It looks AWFUL! I am so sorry." She was my friend, so that bitch deserved it.

Yes, yes. Haters have at it. I know folks are going to be judgemental about my bitchiness. But I am usually a very sweet, kind, giving, empathetic person who volunteers and donates to charity, etc.


If she was your friend...BRAVO! Bitch did deserve it!